So I've realized until now that as a boy, I've been attracted to strong-willed, tomboyish girls and I only view other girls without those characteristics as friends. Later I found out that one of the girls I've been attracted to had gotten themselves a girlfriend. I've been thinking if I'm really attracted to girls or just using these characteristics as an excuse and actually attracted to boys. Because one time I found my male classmate attractive that I just want to get close to him but his personality turned me off. I am a also a little effeminate so I do get along with girls and I can be a gentleman and show courtesy to girls as well, but what I also want is to be shown courtesy like to other girls, I wanted to be the one protected and cared for (a treatment which mostly only girls get). So I wonder: What exactly is my sexuality?
It looks like you are interested in someone's personality rather then the gender, if I'm not wrong you are "pansexual". Pansexuality refers to those who fall in love with peoples personalities. reply
