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I’m not necessarily ashamed, but I’m selective of whom I share my like of BL with.   reply
30 11,2025
I still feel that internal shame for it because I do acknowledge in my small brain that yaoi is a genre built on unfair fetishization of gay men. Which makes I feel kinda icky about liking it. But at the end of the day it is what I read and I feel like many members of the queer community are reclaiming the stories. Even though they may not have bee......   reply
30 11,2025
no, i used to be bc i was younger but now i legit dont care i rock my aoba keychains in public, i talk abt it openly with friends too sure there's weird stuff out there but there's weird shit in any media so don't be scared be cringe be free and have fun   reply
30 11,2025
It's the opposite, i'd go arround telling people that i read yaoi to keep them away from me. Only real ones stay. Love you irl besties   reply
30 11,2025
no, im a proud reader of peak   reply
30 11,2025
Yes. The shame is there since BL is rather a taboo topic in my country. So, I really had no irl friends to share with. Made few mistakes of sharing/got caught and like they tried to broadcast it. That is where I felt the shame. Reading taboo is still taboo.. So, only I wish Inhad friends who are so open into BL. One can only hope   reply
30 11,2025
Yes- why wouldn't I be, because of Lezhin and Renta, all that gets advertised is noncon and dubcon. Which is not worse from normal manga advertisements but yaoi is not the only reason why I read BL. All my fujoshi friends and calm compared to what people think we are- even I hate the stuff that made for only the fujoshi audience... fetishizing is ......   reply
30 11,2025
I do talk about BL occasionnally, and why I am glad BL exist in this world. (but i don't talk about yaoi) I don't like talking about my sex life openly , so saying that i enjoy watching porn in general, or enjoy ''reading'' yaoi is something i consider private. Not that i don't want to '' admit it '' i could talk about it to a lover or a very close......   reply
30 11,2025
I only share it to the people I’m closed with   reply
30 11,2025
Oh yeah definitely I only have three relatives who know I read it(my brothers and my male cousin), and none of my friends know. Though I highly suspect one reads furry bara and another is a himejoshi. My older brother has always known, and he was really skeptical of the time I swore it off. (I have moral ocd it's a real fun time) but I figured at......   reply
30 11,2025
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