Insecurity

Hey y'all!
This is a bit vulnerable and embarrassing to admit, but I have been dealing with a bout of crippling low self esteem lately. I cannot, for the life of me, find myself attractive. What is making it a bit worse than usual atm is one of my friends is VERY beautiful and a wonderful person. She constantly gets approached and complemented by everyone she meets. I cannot help (DESPITE HATING MYSELF FOR DOING THIS), but feel a bit bad for myself after being overlooked and ignore over and over repeatedly. And, I mean repeatedly -I have lost count at the number of times. I know this is my own issue, and I am in no way blaming my friend at all btw! If anyone has any advice on how to deal with this in a healthier way- pls lmk! It just makes me feel like no matter what I wear, what makeup I do, ect.- It's never enough yk. I'd also like to add that I am 23 with NO relationship experience which I suppose makes me want it more idk :( PS. I am asking on here bc i cannot afford therapy lmao. Please be nice

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Mooshroominator 8 hours

I’ve also been struggling with this as many other women who I hang out with occasionally are always complimented and I am also essentially ignored. It just always comes with a twang of sadness when it happens. And that’s normal, don’t worry. Honestly, the only thing to do if you really want to feel better about yourself is to change how you...... 1 reply

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