Chat is this obsession?

okay so i highkey like this boy, we're online friends or can i say my online situationship? but we live in the same country and we follow each other on socials.

the thing is i'm wondering if i'm being a creep fuck by gathering information i know about him (through our conversations) to stalk his family, his past school, his current activities, and literal home address ON GOD I CAN'T LIE ANYMORE, I KNOW HIS FAMILY MEMBERS AND EXACT HOME ADDRESS...

i feel so ashamed by myself and my action like wow i can't believe i did that (also lowkey in disbelief by my information gathering skills, type shit..)
i definitely overstepped my boundaries chat how do i stop this concerning actions

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____ 15 12,2025

" literal home address" is where I stopped reading. Goodbye. 1 reply

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Static noises 15 12,2025

This is creepy. The fact that you know where he lives, that's already creepy. And it's even creepier that you know, his past school and his family members. 1 reply

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Lazy_Potato 15 12,2025

self awareness is so underrated, that fact that you realise and understand your actions are not very healthy is the first step that ppl always underlook and are so quick to judge. a genuine creep would not be so willing to admit their faults and want to work them out. personally, i don't know how to help you, sorry for that; i hope that you'll find...... reply

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JAHE° 15 12,2025

i mean stalking his social media is pretty common so knowing who he associates with and all through his socials is fairly fine imo but instead of just move on about your day you dive deep into every little details of it and even know his activities and home address that's crossing the line. yeah you're CREEPY. better touch some grass, go the park o...... reply

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....... 15 12,2025

Yea thats obsession but atleast you have self awareness of it all i can say is just dont do anything crazy like physical stalking, blackmail or something lol thats literally all that comes to mind i hope you two end up together in the end or something 1 reply

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Jasper aint Jaspering 15 12,2025

Umm.....I mean it wouldn't be considered stalking because you're doing it to get to know about him more because it's obvious that anyone else would love to get to know a person more if they're interested in them plus if they are good at getting information that is. (Because we're impatient :(...) Well anyways, some may, like MAY find you a creep c...... 2 reply

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yeah 15 12,2025

i mean it's fine if you don't do anything bad with it right (but it is giving obsessed i fear) reply

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Vikki 15 12,2025

I mean it’s a little bit weird? T-T we talking about crush right? I know you head over heels but i mean it’s good thing to know one or two thing about him but uhh idk sorry good luck reply

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