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Last year i was depressed so i joined a dating app and met a guy who could carry a conversation. He’s like 6 years older than me. I’m 21. After i gave him my personal contact, I ghosted and decided to respond on new year #newyearnewme.

Anyways, We’ve known each other for 4 days and he calls me “lover”, talk about his fantasies, how he loves my body, he told me to quit my job so he’ll take care of me…I don’t know if it’s normal. I feel scared and overwhelmed. We’ve never even met. He asked me to go to his house…Idk what to do. I’m not particularly interested in him but people are worried that im cursed since i’ve never dated…so i think i have to…at this age.

Im scared he’ll find me ugly irl or that i’d be too awkward and stiff. What if he wants to kiss? I’d definitely not want to. i don’t even know how to…

I’ve never felt attraction towards anyone…since my only crush in high school 6 years ago…I just want to be alone…but that’s not normal..

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coco 9 days

I wouldn’t go to his house, he seems really suspicious and overwhelming. Honestly, I’d stop talking to him, he seems creepy. It seems honestly like he just wants to sleep with you or something else, the way he is calling you lover after only four days and talking about his fantasties etc is really really suspicious. I would also feel really unc...... reply

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DO NOT Go to his house, you don't quit your job or any of the things he asked, if you're not comfortable or feel things are going too fast, then set clear boundaries and if he doesn't want to respect them then move on, You're looking for a relationship, but if the signs point to this person not being right for you, then you have to pursue someone e...... reply

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nincha 9 days

It's way too soon to even suggest that. I'd say you just stay at home and tell him you don't trust him yet. Prolly block bcz it's actually kinda creepy idk .. Ofc it's normal to feel lonely and not want to be alone and I'm pretty sure there's someone out there for you pookie. Just don't rush into things and if he's right for you, you'll know deep d...... reply

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Nanamikentowife 9 days

Please don't say yes. He just did a first manipulation it's usually serial killer if not then a rapist, if you really want to meet him then suggest a place that are pretty crowded like cafe or restaurant please don't meet him alone for a first time meet reply

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selfcest 9 days

Bro block his ass it's never too late to start dating you can do that shit when you're 25 or smth reply

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沙琪玛 9 days

Make sure you don’t quit your job he’s going to hold you down that is def not normal and go to a public place like a cafe or something for the first meet DO NOT GO TO HIS HOUSE don’t know what will happen there reply

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Lazy_Potato 9 days

GIRL WHAT. i'm sorry but you're completely normal. not having dated at 21 is fine, you don't wanna date and prefer your own company/ platonic relationships? ALSO ALLOWED. you are yourself, you can choose to live life at your own pace and you're not obligated to follow societal standards, don't let anyone pressurize you into thinking otherwise. so ...... reply

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Kuriss 9 days

This is just suspicious as HELL. Don't say yes at all !! Wanting to be alone is completely normal, not everyone yearns for company. Never date just to fit in. 1 reply

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Lia56 9 days

Hello that dude behaviour is NOT NORMAL! Please delete him and do not go to that date. This is suspicious af and its ok if you do not feel like dating. You are only 21 and you have a lot of time. Don't date just because you see other ppl doing. Its ok to be single too reply

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