what is happening with feminism

why do ppl, and I hate to say it's mostly lesbian, canceling other lesbian cuz they're stanning an actor? or read yaoi? or even be civil with men?
do ppl know lesbian doesn't mean automatically hating men? do they know how harmful that is to assume that? do people know you can hate men while still be attracted to them???

another separate case, someone got cooked for saying they're sad that female athletes is wearing makeup while competing. this is a basic ass feminist take and they got shit on by other "feminist" for it

this is happening in the span of a week
what the hell is with the current state of feminism
look at our feminist dawg we're so cooked