How to stop being goofy ah jealous pos
I think I’m just jealous I will admit if it’s that,
I’m not jealous not about the guys she emotionally manipulates fuck them or not even the relationship aspect but that my supposed “best friend “ person I’m supposed to be closest to my ride or die with would rather hangout with her “boy toys” who are just creepy ass men with bad intentions, fugly looks and asshole personalities she goes out of her way to hangout with these ppl
She never goes out of her way to hangout with me or talks to me first like what the fuck I’m obviously not her fave but it hurt she dont see me like that ig like some guy you met on snap last week is more important than me hurts twin
She pisses me off sometimes i lowkey hate her she makes me angry cry a lot for other shit she did fuck u if you’re reading this u PMO CONSTANTLY AND A HORRIBKE FRIEND
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Having someone who one, doesn't care who she's spending her time with, cruising through life like life is a joke, will be the literal death of you. I don't know how old you may be, but people like that pretend to be around for the sake of having someone, WHICH IS THE BIGGEST RED FLAG OF DEATH. So quite frankly, EXTERMINATE that person from your life BY DISTANCING your self as much as possible. She's obviously just existing, and people like that just syphon your energy, and kill any opportunity you could ever have.
BEST FRIEND? BEST FRIEND, BUT NEVER TALKS TO YOU FIRST? It's time to find new friends, mate. Maybe one of them will be the new bestie. And if you "lowkey hate her" and "she makes you angry and cry a lot"... I think that's your sign that this relationship is past its expiry date. You asked how to stop being jealous, but I think the issue is that your love and care aren't reciprocated, leading to jealousy/resentment. And if those men she hangs out with are really the way you described them, I think that says enough about the sort of person she is. She also sounds addicted to emotional manipulation, so be careful. Please take care of yourself.
I know but iniating a friend breakup is hella scary and I’m the type of person to just stay, I really need to find the courage
And I guess I have en emotional attachment to this person since we’ve been friends for 10 years