should i get back w my ex
pls dont bash me for asking ts on here i gen have nowhere else to ask
UMM ive kinda made a list of pros and cons of getting back?!?!? bear w me for now Gulps
PROS: I miss her TERRIBLY SO!!! / we stayed as friends up until now so i dont rly harbor any hard feelings towards her...maybe... / the only reason we broke up wzs bc she was afraid of getting found out (wlw couple in a conservative country?? how fun.) / i miss my girl
CONS: shes leaving for France in like a few months for her studies...not sure how immune i am to long distance / she only came back after i cut contact for a month or so?!? it took me leaving for her to move Sigh / no mention of her not upping and leaving again?? if anything im the one who'll get jumped if we're found out but she seems to avoid that topic...
I could write more but just asking for help on here is embarrassing enough for me
UGHGH CUT ME SOME SLACK PLEASE JUST GIVE ADVICE
Girl no, if you can't really handle long distance relationship then it's not gonna be good for you and her. I understand wanting to get back with someone but you have to let go. That's the thing about queer relationships, if the person isn't ready to be really out then we can't force them. It's for their own safety but I do hope one day she can be ......
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23 02,2026
