I have a classmate in college, we were friendly for a while but she only ever talks to me when we share a class, and when she wants answer for homeowork/project ect. If we aren't in the same class we're practically strangers. I want to distance myself from her, but she's how I would explain as fake nice, but, at least to me, she's irritating. Regardless, we're in the same class once again and she's following me around, and I need advice on how to get rid of her. I want her to stop following me, but I struggle with confrontation and I don't really have a good reason to push her away, she hasn't done exactly done anything big, more like little things. Please help.
Communication. u don't have to do it this way but you can even do it in fake nice way right back at her if that makes sense? She could even know she's crossing ur boundaries and still doing on it purpose because u haven't stopped her. 1 reply
I’m not trying to imply you’re wrong for disliking it, but I think that’s just what being college acquaintances is. At least, that’s the basic strat at my university. I really, really like it, because:
1) you get chummy FAST, I never learned to navigate the slow burn of starting new friendships so this is my natural inclination
2) if you w...... reply
Dam its the college pick me girls back at it again Deadass nothing will feel better then telling her to fuck off. Why not just sit on the opposite side of where you usually sit? If she follows you just get up move back to your original seat and be like “don’t follow me” or stay silent. Silence is stronger than words, and if she’s crazy may...... 1 reply