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pupsik
20 03,2026
first thing, i don’t think that saying “i don’t like you (in that way, sorry)”is mean tho. i mean, it would be mean to pretend that you like him out of pity or something. but being honest is the best option. (your answer is good enough tbh.) i would say, trust you instincts. and don’t try to please him (i struggle with this too, so it’......   2 reply
20 03,2026
Mawa0r 20 03,2026
Had a similar sort of situation a couple of times where a dude liked me and still pursued me after I rejected him. Here’s the tip: be CLEAR and DIRECT. While it’s mean, I feel like stuff like ‘we can still be friends’ or ‘now is not the time’ makes them think they still have a chance if they try harder (note: them being in love lowkey m......   reply
20 03,2026
SilverVine_Cat 20 03,2026
He does seem genuinely concerned about you, based on what you quoted him saying. He seems to consider you a friend at least, separate from having feelings for you. I don't think he's trying to manipulate you or anything. From my perspective, I interpret the message he sent like this: "I noticed you started avoiding me, and I feel like it's my fau......   2 reply
20 03,2026
silent_wisp
20 03,2026
Telling him that you’d be okay with being friends would be my inclination too, but I’m gonna recommend you don’t say that anymore. It makes him think you still want him around and he has a chance and that’s, uh… not what you want, I think. I don’t think you have to respond. It seems like he’s starting to get the hint that you don’t......   reply
20 03,2026
bakaneko 20 03,2026
This actually happened to me too when i was in uni. i rejected him the exact same way as you did and he reacted almost the exact same way, but it stretched out until like 2 years (4 semesters) bc he's a common friend of my besties' boyfriends so i ended up meeting him and stuck with him quite often. The last straw was when he called me "baby" when ......   reply
20 03,2026
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