i have such a hard time spending money on expensive things now that i’m an adult. i’m almost 20 but it’s like im still forbidden to buy expensive stuff bc it gives me so many anxiety knowing im spending my savings
idk if its an universal thing for lower-middle class ppl. but yeah i just feel like i need to constantly save up to feel good and it’s really annoying. even going on vacations, like it’s such a foreign concept for me

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Naw cause it’s exactly the same for me, only thing im ok spending money on is food and just thinking about spending my entire savings on a vacation just makes me rather not want to go tho I do wanna travel the world someday
LMAO STOP I WANTED TO SAY THIS ABT FOOD i relate sm to u cuz i drink bobas every week and i don’t feel one ounce of regret. but when it comes to everything else..? even clothes omg i just can’t
travelling seems so fun, but so expensive too. i wonder if it’s worth it or not. this financial situation is a burden for every young adults istg kill meeee
Oh also, i‘m lower middle class as well nowadays (in the past it was worse) but its weird cause my bro is addicted to online shopping practically and is in constant debt with me n other people cause of it but I myself hate spending money, so we re both from the same household yet have completely different spending styles ( ̄∇ ̄")
ouch i hope your brother can one day realizes how bad debts are i can’t imagine the thought of being in constant debt, so scary. while you in contrary, you hate spending money i also hope u can both have in the future, a better and healthier relationship with money