all my friends got a boyfriend wtf?!
so, we have a friend group, of 5 women(say, me, A,M,J,C). we were friends from college. and yesterday i met with one of my friends(A) and she told me she's seeing this one guy(i have also met him once or twice, she and him were friends before). and i was like oh, good for you! then she told me that one of our other friends(M) is also dating this other guy(i also met him once, he was okay i guess, but M liked him.), and i was like, okay i saw it coming. then we accidentally meet our other friend(J) and she didn't tell us that she was in a relationship but from our chats it feels like she's in a talking stage and have something going on with a guy. so, i text C today, to tell her about these deets (she remains MIA most of the time) and she was like, the same level of "misandrist" as me T_T, and she was also bi (all my other friends are straight, thats what they have told me). so C also tells me she got a bf too?!?! omg im so shocked, all my friends got a bf and here i am, i legit don't talk to men at ALL. im not jealous or sad or anything, i dont even want to be in a relationship, but oh god the concept of all of them getting together with men, in similar time duration is so baffling to me T_T.
now i feel like im the one left out, and i feel a bit distanced. (they didn't put the distance between us, it's just....you know. feels like an odd one out). the thing i dont even wanna get a bf or a relationship, but this feels like induced FOMO.
Honestly you don't need to feel that way
Happened to me and I felt pressured to have one but I'm happy I didn't
Everyone is different just do things that makes you happy like a new hobby and chat with ur friends trust me don't feel that way just overlook and do something
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