validation
How does one stop seeking validation from people who dont care about you.. I don't know why im doing this to myself. It hurts seeing them not care when im trying so hard to give them everything. I feel more like an acquaintance to them than anything else. While they're so indifferent to me, im slowly over analyzing everything I said and did. I want to stop feeling like this.. to stop craving validation so much. My thoughts started going in a dark direction, I thought if I was somehow hurt then maybe they would care... It feels like I cant stop these thoughts.
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Just remind yourself you don't need their validation to feel something, what you do is already enough and if they can't appreciate that? They can go screw themselves. You're enough as it is.
It’s completely normal to want to be acknowledged even by people who aren’t close to you. You just have to remember that their treatment of you doesn’t define your worth. Please don’t hurt yourself for the validation of people who seemingly don’t care enough in the first place. There are always better friends out there. I tend to seek out new people when I feel invisible.