Is someone born gay, or is gayness thrust upon them?

Same here. I remember liking women from as far as I remember. I just thought everyone likes women because they are so gorgeous. That's the earliest j can remember   reply

whenever the nature or nuture questions come up about anything I usually come to the conclusion that either way it doesn't matter. you are what you are whether you were born that way or raised that way. however it happened, you cant change it. if it's not hurting anybody, don't mind those who don't bother to understand and do whatever makes you hap......   reply

For me, I wasn't into dudes from the start, throughout middle-school till the first year of high school I was always interested in women and had a relationship with one, it wasn’t until like half the year that I started noticing this one guy, it wasn’t romantically at first, I was just curious and wanted to be his friend, never tried anything t......   reply

I lowkey dont know cause my family is homophobic but looking at the guys around me I can confidently say I'd prefer a woman in personality, looks and habit as they're more similar to me? Like I don't mind guys ig but I'd prefer a girl yk. Maybe I wouldn't be bi if there were like more guys with more hygiene, respect, good personalities etc?   reply

Nature.   reply

Since society was heteronormative, I never really gave thought about same-sex relationships nor did I care when I found out that it was possible, but I always thought I was straight since everyone around me also is, and I’ve liked men before. This all changed when I met this one girl, we were best friends at first, but I started liking her more a......   reply

it’s human nature   reply

Both. Theres no gay gene, but you're also not just a receptacle to others whims. Heterosexuality (and lwk sexuality in general) is coerced, yes, but you negotiate internal and external influences in identity formation.   1 reply

Is this one of the are you born queer or is queerness a choice? Personally it's all about how you feel and the attractions you have to another sex. Some people sort of already knew deep within and there are those that discover as they go through life.   reply

Born fs,from my perspective feel like ive Js always been like this even if I tried to change myself   reply