How did you realize your sexuality?

I dated a lesbian out of genuine curiosity during my university days. I realised I can also do it. I’m bisexual tho. But even when I was young I’ve always find them interesting. My eyes would always land on lesbians more than in men. There is this cute kid on my 6th grade that I find fascinating. She looks so grumpy who doesn’t even know h......   2 reply

Mmmmmmmm I was 4 turning 5 and I despised the idea of living with other people or having other people that's not myself in my space....every human being I came across after that realization felt like a younger sibling, an older sibling, a cousin, an uncle or auntie and a grandma or grandpops or a parent. So any person who ever confessed to me I on......   2 reply

Looking back, I think the signs were always there. Since I was a teenager, I’ve always been attracted to older women, especially some of my teachers, but I never really questioned it until I fell for my first love, who was also a woman. She never knew about my feelings, though. At that time, I thought I was a lesbian. Later, after developing fee......   reply

I didnt have some big awakening or thought process, in 7th grade I just thought "ngl women are hot too" the end.   reply

When I saw lady Gaga's poker face MV for the first time at 4 or 5yo. What's ironic is it was mom who let me watch it. My mom's a homophobe that has 2 transmasc lesbian cousins and had 3 gay guy friends in the workplace.   reply

Tbh, my mom always suspected I liked girls, even when I was little. She’d always warn me not to become a lesbian because she believed it was “demonic.” When I first got to boarding school, I and some of the girls would mess around and touch each other. A nun eventually found out and reported it to my parents. They ended up taking me out of t......   reply

When I saw my friends actually being sad about not being in romantic relationships and when they told me its something they actually want and need while i just dgaf and don't want to have. I can say I'm aromatic I'm still questioning asexual because I get horny but like i don't really feel the need to have sex or want to honestly   reply

It just made sense for me to be attracted to a woman more than a man. Ever since I was little I would think that me marrying a man is weird, but me marrying a woman felt normal. I've never had prominent crushes on anyone till today. But loving and marrying a woman just made more sense to me. The people I have dated till now. I have just come accros......   reply