Do you think watching porn is cheating

Damn, so many insecure people in this comment section ngl lmao. The porn industry by itself is already gross but I'd rather have my girlfriend watch porn/read smut and masturbate to it than go out and actually physically cheat on me with another person like... Plus it would be hypocritical of me to think her watching porn is cheating meanwhile I'......   2 reply

yes it's cheating, cuz why the duck are you masturbating while watching a different men/women that is not your lover?   1 reply

Anyone who considers porn cheating is just insecure. If a person jerks off it's ok but doing it while watching porn is cheating? What if your partner jerks off to Sailor Moon or Wonder Woman or Thor, is THAT cheating? Or to a rated R movie that has a steamy scene? It is literally an inanimate object! If the objection is that they are getting o......   1 reply

It's not that black and white, and the comment section disturbs me as to how militantly binary they are regarding a nuanced topic. And I have a feeling most of such opinions come from inexperience of relationships. People are people first, they are individuals before they are a part of a duo, a couple. And they absolutely have the right to explor......   reply

I don’t think watching porn counts as cheating (at least not always), but personally I find it repulsive. Your partner isn’t always in the mood when you’re sexually aroused or not always available, so in my opinion it’s okay to use certain ‘material’ in those situations. Of course, only if both partners are okay with it. Personally, por......   1 reply

Tbh I think it’s more nuanced than straight up cheating for me. For example, where is the line drawn? When it’s real people? What if it’s smut? In a way it’s like cheating level 1. I wouldn’t immediately break up with them like I would if they cheated w a real person irl. As in, I think the relationship is still salvageable if work is do......   reply

Then what about reading smut in BL's ? Does it not matter just cuz they aren't real ?They are inside phone too . Everyone here is being excited while reading smut in stories man / woman doesn't matter . Not only BL , straight novel and comics also have porn in it . I don't think watching porn is cheating. But if they are willingly subscribing to ......   reply

lots of weird insecure people in the comments. masturbation is medically recommended for human beings who feel the need to do so. it is an intimate, personal, and cathartic experience - separate from romance, attraction, or sex with a partner - and deeply important for sexual and mental health. you just sound stupid and insecure af when you cal......   1 reply

No, but I generally dislike the porn industry because of its exploitative nature. Also its not that hard to be imaginative, lol.   reply

no not really cuz masturbation lwk its own typa pleasure that sex doesn’t always satisfy, ik ppl will say that you don’t necessarily need porn to jerk yo shi but idk it’s not really something i find scandalous or anything. idk idrgaf about watching porn unless it’s csam or noncon bc then that’s super weird.   reply