lost my chance
he told me he wanted to be pegged on the first date - i thought i found god that night. he almost fucked me on side of the main road, kid was absolutely wild. then learned he was eight years younger and not even half a year later he was married, so i didn’t end up being born again. i think about this at least twice a month.
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How old were gou?
i was 28 & he had just turned 21. i’m not opposed to dating younger or older, and the age gap in discussion is not abhorrently egregious, what gave me pause was that personally i feel like i lived multiple lives in that frame of time between us. i did cancel the second date with intention to raincheck but i guess i moved too slow cuz i turn my head and kid’s fuckin married ¯_(ツ)_/¯
8 years younger or not if i were you i would've totally gone for it as long as he wasn't a minor. Although anything younger than 16 would be kinda weird for me
Ps. I'm 18 so it's not as weird as it sounds.
he was 21 and i was 28, not the most offensive age gap, and truly altho i hesitated and cancelled the second date i did have intention to make another plan. moved too slow tho cuz it was like i cancelled the date and next thing i see he’s married.
and 18 & 16 ain’t weird at all, those are literally your peers. people need to chill if you got any side eye for that age difference