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i think a lot of people use the phrase "it's just fiction" to justify their behavior, when oftentimes such extreme reactions are rooted in genuine, internalized hatred or emotion, whether they're cognizant of it or not. i've noticed this too, actually, where female characters are hated on simply because they're paired with a man that certain fans ......   3 reply

you know what they say, a crush is just a lack of information   1 reply

go easy on yourself. you put the weight of the world on your shoulders and told yourself pressure makes diamonds, but you shone the brightest unburdened by expectations.   2 reply

panromantic asexual cis female here :DD   2 reply

OP HERE! it seems like some of my replies aren't getting posted for some reason. maybe its my device idk. reminder: i have friends im just looking to meet some new ppl with similar interests. don't look down on or overgeneralize an entire platform of users. it's giving intellectual snobbery. chill out. i tried to comment on everyone who requested/......   1 reply

omg bro i agreee. i've seen people (especially on discord) being downright awful to people who like reading yaoi. not all of it is shit, lol. they put vomit emojis next to manhwa they havent even read and group all of us as a whole saying we fetishize? like maybe some people do, but it's the minority? im pretty young and i read whatever looks inter......   reply

while i she shouldn't have said that or handled the situation in that way, i definitely don't think you were justified in that response...basically you guys were both assholes and it seems she's judging you for your behavior, and you're judging her for her appearance. neither of you are in the right, and while i can't say from this limited info whe......   reply

as long as it doesn't like~ negatively impact their view of like gay relationships and stuff, i think it's okay. i think a lot of us started off with yaoi the wrong way but developed into understanding what's actually good, respectful material and what's not. i started BL when I was 13 and it took me like a month to be a decent, good person about i......   reply

lol NO   reply

pffft 13 >:D (▰˘◡˘▰)   reply

this is so incredibly real. i want to do so much and under the pressure of my desires i end up neglecting them all. i just rot and fulfill my duties to the barest minimum. and yet i love my incessant curiosity and interests. there truly aren't enough hours in the day. what kind of art do you like producing, OP? whats your favorite medium of art?   1 reply

this is a very normal and valid experience to have when you're young. humans are in a constant state of evolution, mentally and physically, and trust me when i say that even if you feel stuck and alone right now, time moves and you move along with it. always. it sounds like you're still in high school. eventually, you'll move out of your hometown. ......   1 reply

i dont wish to put any labels on you if that's not what you want, but have you ever considered that you might be asexual? Asexuality is a spectrum and there could be a chance that you're somewhere on there. As for romantic interest, have you ever been interested in someone? Like had a crush? Fallen in love? If not, then you may even be aromantic. A......   1 reply

uh well i dont simp for either of them. granted, they're attractive, but sangwoo is like~ ok well we dont talk abt him. seungho i think should be given some credit, cause he's getting character development and his relationship with nakyum is totally different from sangwoo and bum (which i DONT ship). pls dont compare seungho and nakyum to sangwoo a......   reply

it's more common to tip at restaurants/diners and the like. if you're ordering a coffee at starbucks and don't tip, they don't gaf, trust me. like others said, tipping is a way to transfer responsibility from employers to customers in paying the employees. it's messed up, but yeah america is capitalist! fuck capitalism! rather than saying americans......   reply

yeah netflix has been known for garbage quality translations. such a shame because the unpaid and illegal fan translations i'd read would always trumph the netflix sponsored pro ones.   reply

OK so I'm seeing a lot of comments here that are criticizing younger fujodanshis in their teens. I myself am 13 and honestly, am not like whatever you mentioned above. First of all, I am not straight - I am a panromantic asexual cis female and for the people who say it's too early to know if I'm asexual, stfu. I'll begin answering the questions now......   1 reply

hey um if it's not too late could you add me? my id is: ethereaal   reply

hey um if it's not too late could u add me? maybe we can be friends cause i have like none :00 my id is ethereaal   reply

add me pls i'd love to join :D discord: somethingcreative#4672   reply