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Maybe this wont help you at all... but when I came out as bi to my mom, I did it completely randomly in a conversation we had about life in general. I was a grownup, but since I hadn't ever dated a woman (I'm a cis woman myself) I hadn't felt the need to say it. I knew she wouldn't mind since, I grew up surrounded by gay family friends, and she di......   reply

Everybody should do that! Literally everybody! There's nothing wrong with asking to protect yourself from things that can potentially make you infertile, give you cancer or HIV. Some linger in the body for years and years and you'd never know without a test. Using protection (condoms) is something you should do but you're not a 100% protected wit......   reply

What you've done is actually quite common among 3 year olds. Kids throw tantrums and steal other kids toys. 3 year olds don't face as many consequences for theft though, so with that in mind, maybe self-reflect a little... From what you've written it sounds like you have every right to be angry, but if you can't tolerate your friends piss poor att......   reply

You seem confused A bar is the epicentre of loud people. Loud people literally come together in bars. Even people who aren't loud end up being loud in bars. That's totally normal. Not liking loud people is fine, but expecting no loud people in a bar is odd. And being outraged by loud people in a bar ("it was a bar ffs!") is even weirder. And YES ......   1 reply

NOBODY should have any say in what anyone does with their body! Because if you have the right to decide that a person cannot get an abortion then that person should also have right to decide that you SHOULD HAVE ONE! That's how it works! Otherwise people don't have EQUAL HUMAN RIGHTS I don't know WHY it is soo hard for some people to understand ......   1 reply

To me, it honestly doesn't matter if they've changed or not. The hurt you felt/they caused is there regardless. That pain doesn't change because they've become "a better person" The only 2 things that can possibly change that perspective is you dealing with that pain to better live with it (I don't want to say get over it or resolve it, because th......   reply

Curiosity killed the cat and, I swear, I'm one step away from sealing my own fate by clicking on this shit...   reply

Go to the doctor. Tell them you're thinking about jumping out in front of stuff and get help. If you'd like to start smaller, call a hotline first! The greatest thing I've ever learned in life is that getting help WILL MAKE IT BETTER. Getting help is NOT the end of the world, it's quite the opposite. No amount of thinking can get you out of that s......   reply

1: manga 2: manhwa 3. manhua When I click on a story today and see it's a manhua my instinct is to think "I'm probably not going to like this" My main problem with them are that love stories about adults are portrayed as love stories of 13 year olds but with topics that are very much not for kids.   2 reply

For me it didn't hurt at all...like NOTHING... There was some pressure but that's all... I will however say that I had a patient partner, who wasn't a virgin. I think some of the problem can be, that you're obviously nervous when it's the first time, so it's hard to relax. I do think it would be best if you get familiar with your own body first, s......   reply

What are you people on about??? NOBODY's an asshole for being something. The only way anyone's an asshole is if they ACT LIKE ONE.... Anyone calling you an asshole for simply being the way you are or feeling the way, you do, is actually the asshole!!! As long as you don't actively walk around hurting people on purpose, you're not an asshole - th......   reply

I agree with everyone that distance is the right thing to do. Do not be alone with him, and to tell someone immediately, but since I don't know your family situation, I can't advice you on who to tell. But please tell someone, anyone or everyone! Most importantly I want you to know that it does NOT matter why he is doing this. Is he just like this......   1 reply

Words like Top, Bottom, Vers and a bunch of other words are used to signal what sort of intimacy you're into if you're going to be intimate with someone of the same gender - Seme and Uke are also just words.... It only becomes a problem when degenerates add extra value to those words by being weird....   reply

I don't care. Why should I? As long as everyone is consenting as adults, whatever you want to do, do it (no murder please). Though I will say there are quite a few people who throw these words around without other people's consent or in public, and those are honestly trash. A lot of them don't even realise they are doing anything wrong. Reasonabl......   reply

You're clearly very worried about all the humans, men and women, who's going to be in line to confess their eternal love for you and "ruin friendships" so just don't spend time with all these pesky humans and be by yourself queen... Problem solved.... (that'll also save your poor "friend" and any other future "friends" from ever having to find o......   reply

Nope. Not weird. If you like reading it then that's that. I don't think anyone of any gender or orientation should hold themselves back from reading what they enjoy. To some, it might mean their sexuality is a little more fluid than they thought, to others, not at all. Do what you enjoy (unless it's murder and mayhem) it doesn't hurt anyone   reply

So I'm going to be that one who says the "stupid" thing... BUT when it's actual romantic love, you'll know without a doubt!!! So if you don't know, it's NOT... There is a stage before that, when new feelings come out either because you meet someone new or become aware of someone and you kind of feel more than friends but unsure, and those feeling......   reply

Unless you've tried both, you're not capable of making that decision! Imagine having such a GOD complex you believe yourself to be the sole judger of horrifying torture. You do not have the experience or the knowledge to determine what is worse unless you've actually died from starvation and returned to the land of living.... and even then, it woul......   1 reply

Go to the doctor. I know, you said, you can't, but please - just to make sure it's actually a yeast infection and not something worse... Also, whatever it is, it will NOT go away. Ever. It will only get worse. Go get stuff to treat it. For yeast infections there are creams and suppositories.   reply

The only thing I'm going to say here is be prepared to have products not work and have to buy new ones.... It sucks but be prepared... Since it's so individual what works from one person to the other even if they have the same skin type, I'd advise to only buy max two products from a line - 1 cleanser and 1 moisturizer - if you can, get test sizes ......   1 reply