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If they are truly a kind non racist person, being told "Hey that thing you said hurt me/is racist/makes me uncomfortable...." will not be a problem... If a kind person says something wrong or offensive unintentionally, that person will be happy, that you said something to them or cleared it up for them. If however they get angry or claim it isn't......   3 reply

Everything with consent between to (or more) adults is okay in my book. It's not any of my or your business what other people chose to do privately in or out of bed. Some like boobs, some like hands, some like feet or muscles or spanking or smoking and some have rape fantasies and do rape play..... Just because it's not for you, doesn't make it wro......   reply

I think some people have forgotten that you can fight, argue and disagree without being mean... and those people are somehow bonding with the degenerates that get a kick out of hurting someone and the others who get a kick out of big reactions..... Imagine being so weird it makes you happy to shit on other people....   1 reply

You say, you have mutual friends so meet him with them. Unless those mutuals are also only online.... If you have mutual IRL friends, get a bunch together and go eat something or see a movie or whatever. If he not ok with that - tell him to go pound sand... If all of them are only online, don't meet any of them alone and keep it public...   1 reply

I would bet everything I own that 90% of what that pitiful boy has said to you is utter lies to butter you up for this! I can't tell you what to do, but do yourself a favour and keep him blocked, don't even stay friends with him. It's NOT worth it. You mention your cousin saying it's normal, but do you really want to trust her opinion on this? Fr......   reply

Are you really this unaware or? You know people have different types!!! and from what you've said, it seems like your type is the stereotypical top looking person, BUT you do realize there are other people in this world with other types right...??? There are literally billions of people in this world and not everyone's going to think like you..........   1 reply

Depends on what happened in my opinion. Did your grandfather almost do something but stopped himself? Or did he want to do it but someone else stopped him? and what was it he was going to do? If he was about to hit her but stopped himself and never did it again - I'd say that is fine - well it's not fine, but getting caught up in extreme emotions ......   1 reply

Some people don't like fish, others do..... what's your fucking point? I know you're probably really young, but I hope you grow up smarter than this. You don't have to understand a single thing about other humans to respect them. Please don't grow up to be this kind of adult okay? (I do agree there's too much SA, violence and some P shit in yaoi......   1 reply

I've never used that word and never will... and I don't know anyone who has, but tbf it's probably not a word used much where I'm from even from racist mfers....   1 reply

There is no one way to be in a relationship.... Some may not want to be in a relationship without sex, but some will, and some will even prefer that... The norm may be to have sex when you're in a relationship, but that doesn't mean it's the "right" way and that anything other than that is "wrong"... A good relationship is so much more than sex   reply

I don't think anyone under the legal age (where I'm from that would be 15) should be exposed to sexual content, but how am I going to stop that..... There's no way for me to do that, so honestly I'd much rather you could be open about it rather than hide it, so that if there are things you're confused about or don't understand (is this reality?) yo......   reply

Some like one, some like the other, some like both. Just like women like different amounts of body hair, so do men. Also a straight man's attraction to women isn't any different than a BI man's attraction to women, so purposely not wanting to hear their opinion, is weird. You mention, you don't care and would never change yourself for a man, but ......   1 reply

I can't.... I'm sorry.... I can't stop laughing.... why does it sound like you're some kind of saviour giving us the answer to the meaning of life...   reply