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If you aren't sure if your parents wont react terribly or if you're not ready for your relationship to change with them it's okay to not come out yet. You're still valid for wanting to stay safe and in the closet for a while longer until you have a safe place to go in the worst case scenario. If you are ready for either of these situations (i.e you......   reply

lol yea. i started realizing around middle school and at first i blamed it on still not having gotten my period so obviously i was still a kid and didnt have a need to like boys (religious trauma woo) then when i started puberty i'd force myself to look at boys but the only boys i could imagine myself with were the long haired skinny scene/emo boys......   reply

I'm Asexual so that is the main reason. I've had MANY chances to get rid of it but I just don't want to. When I was with my ex we were together for 1 year but when ever she wanted me to have sex with her I would just not be interested... I loved her dearly and thought she was beautiful. Hell, I had a line of men telling me how lucky I was to have ......   reply

back in ye olde 2008(?) i was a scene kid and wanted an edgy "rAnDoM" user name and came up with something like xXxLostSoulScoutxXx... scout was what it was eventually shortened to and it stayed   reply

I did and I didn't! A few years ago I had this friend who I started REALLY crushing on, she was our squad's hearth-throb so out of like 8 of us, 5 were openly in love with her. She and I got along the closest and on Halloween she confessed to me! I was in shock and couldn't respond and she took that as being rejected and disappeared for the night. ......   reply

might buy the converse with the rainbow bottoms. donate some money to a few pride organizations. if a parade is happening in my city i'll see if anyone wants to go with me. and idk manifest perhaps getting a gf? or at the very least more queer friends   reply

i remember when the english translation came out lol i illegally downloaded the game on tumblr and was so disappointed when the anime came out because it was horrifically animated.   reply

Skin type: Dry AF w/big pores Morning: Cerave foaming cleanser applied w/face scrubber, a non oil moisturizer, and sunscreen Before bed: remove makeup w/vaseline and soap, exfoliate 2x week, Cerave foaming cleanser applied w/face scrubber and vaseline Drinking water is also important though   reply

to own a house. :') seems pretty impossible though   1 reply

Ghosted my ex after a year long relationship.... She would threatened suicide if I ever did anything she didn't like and I felt like if I tried to talk to her she'd find a way to keep me in. It messed her up for years, she still leaves me passive aggressive messages every once in a while and it's been like 8 years On a less fucked up note, there w......   reply

Wtf when did that start? But anyways get ublock and adblock extensions, they bypass almost everything of the sorts... i haven't seen a single goddamn ad in years lol   reply

Yikes.. calling bi people privileged is seriously messed up. As for the f slur, I personally think that it shouldn't be used to address another person. Don't ever call other people the f slur. Though I can't say about using it for oneself. Historically the LGBTQ+ community has reclaimed a lot of slurs and used them as labels. Words like Queer and D......   reply

NO! my ex gf was abusive, crazy, and a pdo! my ex bf is weird and tried talking to my best friend and i unfortunately have to see him occasionally because his friend married my friend and i see him at parties and such and his wife gives me the stink eye like bitch i dated him 13 years ago when we were in school let it go you got a mortgage and kids......   reply

I wouldn't care if my partner was bi. All that matters is how they'd treat me and if they are a good person. If you're thinking that bi men are secretly gay/straight or more prone to cheat and therefore not husband material that's really mean and unfair to them.   reply

1. i just slap it tbh 2. spinach 3. hyakkimaru, wei wuxian, xie lian 4. i dont think there is a correct answer to this 5. barbecue 6. yes 7. depends on the circumstance 8. 2012? idk cant remember 9. if there is way more fruit then yes the yogurt would become a dressing atp 10. no 11. yes because i have curly hair and moisture is critical   reply

I was like 13-ish when I got into anime and first encountered BL. My older sister has ALWAYS been into anime, like I grew up with Sailor Moon, Dragon Ball, Yu Yu Hakusho, and other classic anime shows. Except she was kinda cringey so I never wanted to get submerged like her lol. But then I did and I went to her to get recommendations and she wanted......   reply

I get bored too sometimes... but i try to rotate my hobbies and genre of things I'm reading. Like today since I can't go to work I took my dogs on a short walk, then watched a movie with my siblings. I'll catch up on the BL I've been bookmarking over the week. Tomorrow, after errands, I'll probably read part of the book I just got and cook a new re......   1 reply

No one can tell you when it is a good time to start exploring your sexuality. It is something only you can tell. I am now 22 but I started reading when I was 14 and have learned a lot about the community. This community is amazing but also dangerous for young readers, and I've had friends who had their experience ruined in ways that could have been......   1 reply

Shouta and loli are big nopes for me. Incest, rape, physiological, abuse, tragedy (unless if it ends on a good note ;A;), comedy+Ecchi in straight manga mostly because they rely on annoying cliches for their comedy. Age gap if the younger person is under 18 at the time they met (I will investigate, but if one was say 25 and the other 35 when the......   reply

normaly about 20ish minutes. the 'everything shower' is a 45 minute hell hole that leaves me raw and dehydrated   2 reply