about question
I'm not even touching mine, but sometimes they hurt with just a slight poke or even when they rub against my shirt.
about question
it hasn't even been released and the hgsn fandom has already gotten a lil toxic with the gatekeeping
about plans for the future
in 2022, someone made a forum post about writing to our future selves through a website called futureme, and the letter would be sent to us on the date & year we chose. i couldn’t find the original forum post, and i never commented under it either. anyway, i wrote one for myself to be sent in 2023, but i forgot the name of the site and i don’t regularly check my emails, so i didn’t know how else i could find it.
then today, i found the website searched the name on gmail, and i did receive it. if anyone wants to write to their future self—maybe 1 year, 5 years, or even 10 years from now—here’s the link:
https://www.futureme.org/letters/new
here's mine from 16 yr me but i had some parts redacted just cus..
The following is a letter from January 05, 2022, delivered from the past by FutureMe. This was sent on December 12, 2023.
Dear FutureMe,
Hey, [redacted], it's me. Today is January 5th, 2022 and we have been in the COVID-19 pandemic for 2 years now. Some schools here aren't open yet. I'm not that smart, so I'm currently struggling with my studies, unable to focus and unable to understand. I really hope that schools will finally open this year, even though part of me doesn't want to go back because [redacted], but what can I do? Studying has become hard for me. [redacted]. Oh well, [redacted] take and I honestly don't know. I don't know what course I'll take in college. I don't know want to become in the future. I can't see myself in the future. I actually [redacted] this. [redacted] abortion illegal? I [redacted], even if it was illegal. [redacted] 'future.' I hope I'm still alive at the age of 18. I'd still be able to get this email and read it. Hopefully, things will be better than they are right now. I hate this life. I know that some people out there have it worse than me, but I just really hate this. It honestly seems like a punishment for me for [redacted].
- From my 16 year old self
well, 16-year-old me, it doesn’t get better and i can’t believe i actually wished to stay alive until 18. (gonna write a new one for myself next year and for 2028, because that’s the year i’ll graduate.)
then today, i found the website searched the name on gmail, and i did receive it. if anyone wants to write to their future self—maybe 1 year, 5 years, or even 10 years from now—here’s the link:
https://www.futureme.org/letters/new
here's mine from 16 yr me but i had some parts redacted just cus..
The following is a letter from January 05, 2022, delivered from the past by FutureMe. This was sent on December 12, 2023.
Dear FutureMe,
Hey, [redacted], it's me. Today is January 5th, 2022 and we have been in the COVID-19 pandemic for 2 years now. Some schools here aren't open yet. I'm not that smart, so I'm currently struggling with my studies, unable to focus and unable to understand. I really hope that schools will finally open this year, even though part of me doesn't want to go back because [redacted], but what can I do? Studying has become hard for me. [redacted]. Oh well, [redacted] take and I honestly don't know. I don't know what course I'll take in college. I don't know want to become in the future. I can't see myself in the future. I actually [redacted] this. [redacted] abortion illegal? I [redacted], even if it was illegal. [redacted] 'future.' I hope I'm still alive at the age of 18. I'd still be able to get this email and read it. Hopefully, things will be better than they are right now. I hate this life. I know that some people out there have it worse than me, but I just really hate this. It honestly seems like a punishment for me for [redacted].
- From my 16 year old self
well, 16-year-old me, it doesn’t get better and i can’t believe i actually wished to stay alive until 18. (gonna write a new one for myself next year and for 2028, because that’s the year i’ll graduate.)
about using mangago
do you guys feel bad about the uploaders or translators getting sued? because I don't. In my mind, I don't even feel bad for the artists, so why would I feel bad for the operators of piracy? I'm grateful, but I won't feel bad.
I found this website [ https://www.fujoshi.info/ ] while searching for a Japanese artist who recently learned about pro-shippers and antis, referring to antis as the 'American feelings yakuza.' I also discovered that Japanese gay male artists don’t like their work being called 'bara' and prefer the term 'geikomi.' Anyway, I thought some people might be interested in reading this.
Learn about the real definitions
LINK : https://www.fujoshi.info/
This website was created as a means to educate Anglophone (English-speaking) fandom and share academic resources on the topics of Fujoshi, Boys Love, Yaoi, and Danmei media. Danmei, BL, and Yaoi fall under Queer Media Studies in Asia. It is a rich category of literature used to freely explore sexuality, gender identity, social politics, and relationship dynamics for those often not at liberty to do so.
Since at least 2015 in Anglophone fandom, anti-trans groups began spreading disinformation about these topics, and unfortunately, fan spaces have never fully recovered. Instead, they are riddled with xenophobia, misogyny, racism, misinformation, and miscommunication.
Here you will find over 330 resources to educate yourself and others on BL, Yaoi, Danmei, Anti-fan behaviors, Psychology, and LGBTQ+ history written by scholars and professionals in these fields.
(Site best viewed on Desktop; Mobile site version can be buggy at times)
[ LAST UPDATED: Sept 12th, 2024 ]
These resources were compiled to provide a hub of legitimate sources for the benefit of Anglophone (English-speaking) fan research and education. Asian sources (BL companies, BL scholars, etc.) and professional global academic resources are prioritized. Resources here include information about Queer History, Women's history topics that correlate with BL, Fujoshi, Fudanshi, Geikomi, Boys Love, Danmei, Yaoi, and the ethics of consuming fictional media and behavioral studies.
Research Database Link:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1DOhIOb-tI5NTJCtoUnpsQ8ntZvgqR5FW/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=104628614202867399058&rtpof=true&sd=true
Learn about the real definitions
LINK : https://www.fujoshi.info/
This website was created as a means to educate Anglophone (English-speaking) fandom and share academic resources on the topics of Fujoshi, Boys Love, Yaoi, and Danmei media. Danmei, BL, and Yaoi fall under Queer Media Studies in Asia. It is a rich category of literature used to freely explore sexuality, gender identity, social politics, and relationship dynamics for those often not at liberty to do so.
Since at least 2015 in Anglophone fandom, anti-trans groups began spreading disinformation about these topics, and unfortunately, fan spaces have never fully recovered. Instead, they are riddled with xenophobia, misogyny, racism, misinformation, and miscommunication.
Here you will find over 330 resources to educate yourself and others on BL, Yaoi, Danmei, Anti-fan behaviors, Psychology, and LGBTQ+ history written by scholars and professionals in these fields.
(Site best viewed on Desktop; Mobile site version can be buggy at times)
[ LAST UPDATED: Sept 12th, 2024 ]
These resources were compiled to provide a hub of legitimate sources for the benefit of Anglophone (English-speaking) fan research and education. Asian sources (BL companies, BL scholars, etc.) and professional global academic resources are prioritized. Resources here include information about Queer History, Women's history topics that correlate with BL, Fujoshi, Fudanshi, Geikomi, Boys Love, Danmei, Yaoi, and the ethics of consuming fictional media and behavioral studies.
Research Database Link:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1DOhIOb-tI5NTJCtoUnpsQ8ntZvgqR5FW/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=104628614202867399058&rtpof=true&sd=true
about question
Hey, so is it grooming if an adult person online is encouraging a minor online to read or watch porn, even if there's no malicious intent behind it?
Or, like, if the adult knows the minor is actively consuming porn and isn't setting boundaries—and still keeps being friends with them—is it grooming?
Or, like, if the adult knows the minor is actively consuming porn and isn't setting boundaries—and still keeps being friends with them—is it grooming?
Did you all know that "child pornography (CP)" is now an outdated term? The new terms are "child sexual exploitation material (CSEM)" or "child sexual abuse material (CSAM)." They changed it because "child pornography" could imply that the child consented to it.
about question
usually happens when it's been a long time since I masturbated. It hurts, but I don't want to do it because I feel like shit afterward anyway. Is this normal????
about question
guys, is it still cheating if they catch feelings for someone else while being in a relationship but don’t act on it, and only act on it after they decided to break up with you? /gen question
about please help im dying
i'm convinced i'm gonna go insane one day with how much i daydream or maladaptive daydream or whatever the heck it's called. id be makig up scenarios and then a few weeks or months later i get confused if that actually happened or not.
about thinking about bl
anyone’s mom addicted to bl dramas? my mom started watching a few months ago- from fili bl to k-bl to thai bl. when we went out to eat to celebrate her birthday, she pulled out her phone and started watching a thai bl on the way to the restaurant. while we waited for the food, she was still watching. when we got home, she did the same. she even did this on my uncle’s birthday and during our outing.
she works from midnight till dawn, but once she’s done, she just continues watching bl instead of getting any sleep in the morning.
it’s 8 am right now, and i’m hearing the kinnporsche theme song from her phone with men heavily breathing.
she works from midnight till dawn, but once she’s done, she just continues watching bl instead of getting any sleep in the morning.
it’s 8 am right now, and i’m hearing the kinnporsche theme song from her phone with men heavily breathing.
about question
there is this strange emptiness that i feel when i finally finish a long book, tv series or video game. at first it's like, "okay, that was great" and then I'll be like, "sooo... what am I gonna do with the rest of my life?"