IrregularPerson's answer page 3 (58)

values are what makes up your friends. bringing bias into this, I don't know if your friend is willing to draw a strong boundary - aside from feeling uncomfortable, if there is the possibility of peer pressure or coercion I would strongly advocate for your safety. people want to experience things they don't have, but keep in mind self-preservation ......   reply

Sounds like your regretting it, and can definitely be the case if they're impulsive. Three things: yes I do buy stuff, how Japan copes to the max, another perspective. 1) I do have a lot of merch, just my dollies alone have totaled $300. And a few of them aren't part of a fandom. I bought single figure for about $100; if anything the series is ge......   reply

enduring effort and confusion. people say whoever falls first is the loser, and that coincides with giving in and making compromises. being in a relationship means losing a part of your autonomy: legally, socially, and emotionally to have someone love you romantically and not being able to reciprocate to them, is not sustainable in the long run. a ......   reply

You folks see his name often, either in the comment section of other series or AO3 tags. The one and only Kim Dokja! I've read plently of action series, but if the guys have remotely any sort of slim waist they equate it to Kim Dokja's. People be down bad fr and they spread his name like we're part of the narrative~   1 reply

Didn't know mayo was controversial- I mean normal white pasta sauce is- merp   reply

an etsy shop resold an item from a dollar store. due to the inventory of dollar stores, it was hard to find from a quick search- I dropped a passive aggressive review with multiple lockers I acquired later on. the shopkeep resold it 600% of the retail price. death to resellers. as for scam calls- they want direct money. but they've been used for ......   reply

my hot take is feru/mukoda from campfire cooking. one twt drew art of them and now i can't unsee it. the dynamic makes sense too. a base mom and a warrior dad, heck if you change up the characters and settings a bit more you get something pretty cliche. there really isn't anything against the grain given that this is beyond it's genre lol   1 reply

Survived.   1 reply

children in any form: protagonist, supporting characters, etc. most of them are used as props and don't bring anything substantial to most stories. I actually like child-rearing series, but there are two sides of the spectrum when they're made into a story: mature and "adult-like" OR naive and damsel. I dislike nothing more than a character witho......   1 reply

someone else said, and I agree- try alternative coffee or there is energy drinks. as for myself, my liver works fast. I literally lose the effects asap. instead I just pivot to a different task, like chores, a shower, self-care like washing my face. anything that is a goal that you know you finish. talking a walk outside, etc. might also help. ju......   reply

The duchess's 50 tea recipes. The tyrants only perfumer. The extent that the potential was lost made me write a complete rewrite of one of them that is many pages long. I love both of their premise, but the execution was lackluster and literal dogsh*t at times.   reply

had my friends and partner /jk that I was addiction to video games. it spiraled to me being on my phone a third of the day- it wasn't bad until someone pointed it out (lie?) and recently I was talking about random news about the social aspect, aside from /jk that there would be a gambling fund, my partner admitted that it seems to be something that......   reply

child rearing, child protagonists. esp dislike when children characters are moreso plot devices with little personality outside of being 'the girl' from harem series where after joining themselves with the mc. they bring about conveniences, troubles, etc. same with the protagonist being a child, it's as if removed from being a child- the story woul......   1 reply

I behave similarly, and I tend to either stew or simmer. I've been getting better in expressing when I feel hurt in a calm collective way, and in a more recent incident I was angry but them profusely apologized because there are some things that I couldn't hold them accountable for but my own feelings of wanting to express how wronged I feel... it ......   reply

I remember seeing the trailer for this, it looks so high quality too. and I love the replayability value. it'd be interesting to see them in either roles, and it reminds me so much of werewolf/mafia (those card games)   reply

Melody of Deadwood. I would suffer but I would have a inalienable found family. I'd take that trade off (I'm surprised I haven't doomed myself to be a BL.)   reply

heat your pan till the oil beads up, or you can splash a little water and watch it immediately evaporate. add egg, acquire crispy egg opt. 1: cook both sides, and have my family's homestyle of a sunny side egg. it's good by itself or soy sauce opt. 2: scramble egg, eat with soy sauce or ketchup there is also salted eggs where you boil eggs, put i......   reply

This goes for any sexuality and romantic label. They're used when introducing yourself by being transparent when looking for a relationship. And they are just terms used to describe the behavior. From additional replies it seems that you had an uncomfortable experience. I personally am going through my own struggles in figuring out my own values ......   1 reply