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Wanting to be a guy not weird. Wanting to be a guy just to be gay bc u read too much BL, very weird. If that's your reason then it's just fetishizing mlm. You should probably give bl a break...go read some other stuff for a while.   2 reply

I don't like that almost all couples have a big height and build difference. Where are the short x short, tall x tall, average x average, fit x fit, shubby x shubby, ect? Not every woman or bottom are 5'1, looks way younger than their actual age, has huge eyes, is skinnier than a stick, and has overall delicate features   1 reply

Bro trust you don't want that. It's all fun and games until they entirely isolate you and micromanage every aspect of your life. Leaving them means danger for you and the people around you. Their anger and jealousy knows no limits and they have no sense of boundaries or respect. Like man getting all your confidential government info sent to you wi......   2 reply

" Wasn't once enough"   reply

I'm not a fan of the troupe it's kinda weird. The only way I find bearable is if it's in a college setting bc both would be adults. I've read a few with the troupe and it always feels wrong and even cringe at times   reply

"villainess" mc... When the mc actually fits the title it's so much better. I don't want to see a "villainess" mc that is a god sent angel. Sometimes they are way more well-behaved than the entire cast combined. At that point just switch her title to saintess. "I'm not gay, people of the same gender dating??, b-but I'm a [insert gender], ect." Ma......   reply

I don't think texting a minor in a STRICTLY friendly way is a bad thing. Sometimes having that older sibling type friendship helps. However anything else is a huge no. There's a fine line between wholesome friendship and grooming. A grown ass person has no business flirty with a minor. We all know that when a creator, actor, writer, ect. is expose......   1 reply

I'd say main difference is art and source. Back in the day most bl, usually called yaoi, were mostly mangas. Because of that shotas were way more common than now. The rapey plots were just as common though. For some reason we still haven't evolved from such "plots". The art wasn't all that important. Which is how the whole "yaoi hands" and other ......   2 reply

Atp you gonna have to go to the villainess tag and start look one by one. All the descriptions you have given sound like every story in the genre ╥﹏╥   reply