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May I offer a perspective I've learned about wanting to be better than everyone else? I think a lot of us grow up with the mindset that we need to be special. That we are special. Maybe it's because we have a talent for X. Maybe it's because we look like Y. Maybe because A,B,C. But why do we want to be special? Smarter? Prettier? Nicer? Most likel......   reply

I for sure had dumber moments but I can't currently remember them First thing that pops into my mind is me eating body cream as a child   2 reply

I once slept in a room with 5 other people, reading on the phone with low brightness and leaning against the wall does the job bro   reply

Someone hating cats or just animals in general. Like I'm okay with someone not liking cats too much (tho I still think it's weird, I love my fluffy babies) but HATING them is a whole different thing, I don't trust you if you hate them   reply

I've been very lonely in my teens. I had a plethora of other issues that contributed to that like depression and low self esteem. I had a few friends, both online and real life ones, but I had trouble speaking to people that weren't my friends. Even with my friends I felt lonely sometimes. It was very tough for me, and I remember it causing me som......   1 reply

Upped my social skills for sure. They were very bad before as I was healing from depression and was so socially anxious. Its kinda funny but it truly did help my anxiety to just talk with people and realize no one gives a shit I also used to be in a department where for the first time in my life I felt like I clicked socially. People were differe......   1 reply

I'm overworked af and I want a vacation, but on the good side I started watching today Jack & Jocker after not watching a bl show for a long time and it makes me happy!!   reply

As someone who started reading mangas from a very young age, I gotta say that I didn't even start reading full blown yaoi. I started with shoujo manga. Even in those mangas, especially the older ones, there are so many problematic tropes. It was actually comments in manga sites that made me realize how problematic and toxic some stuff I read were. ......   1 reply

I've found a simple routine that I can be consistent with and my skin is cool with. Evening routine: 1. Cerave cleanser. I have two of them in my house - one more of a gentle one, the other contains salicylic acid. Salicylic acid is great and even a must for me for the days leading up to my period where the skin gets oiler. It helps me to preven......   reply

It gets better sweetheart. I don't know if you're a teenager or not, but if you are - give yourself some grace. It's hard being a teenager. It really is. It's confusing, uncomfortable and hard. But you slowly learn to walk on that road too. And you will walk on harsher roads. It's a long process, but do your best and you'll find your way.   1 reply

Guys prioritize your sleep, its life changing for real!! You will feel better mentally and physically   reply

Good job, continue rocking on! Super proud of you!!!   reply

I was working remote from somewhere else and was texting with my friend. I needed something from my boss, and guess what the chats got mixed up for me I was also trying birth control at the same time and that shit just wasn't for me (made me extremely emotional and depressed) and I started crying in public because of the mix up and texted sorry n......   reply

The earth is online ლ(´ڡ`ლ)   reply

I switched to a payment app on the phone + a small card holder with a physical card and some bills in it for emergency. Highly recommended honestly if you have a credit card and its supported in your country.   reply

I also tend to dislike it. I love reading fanfics because many times I want more material of the same characters interacting, it kind of takes you out of it when they act out of character   reply

I will add my recent struggle meal at the end, but I got you some general tips that might help: 1. Beans are your friend on a budget! They can cause gas so be aware (lol) but they are great nutrient wise and very filling. And of course rice with beans is heavenly! 2. Get ur veggies girlie! Also if you want things like broccoli buying frozen might b......   reply

I'm glad you learned that lesson. In a way it's a terribly cruel lesson to learn. It's not something you do out of ill will or ignorance, it's because you love someone and want to see them happier. Better. Healthier. But we can't save other people. It's not our role as friends and family. We need to be there to simply love. In the good times and ......   1 reply