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I was talking about my perception of romantic relationship with a friend and turns out my opinion is quite unpopular, i think romantic relationship are tiring and honestly kind of useless but i want someone to love me romantically someone, who needs me to continue living but also i don't think I'll ever feel that love . Love makes people pathetic and I don't think i want to be that pathetic
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13 02,2025
Idk if i'm tripping but the quality of BLS as really dropped, nowadays finding a bl with an interesting story that's not just "broke Twink x abusive alpha daddy with a big neck", sure even back then these stories existed but most bls actually tried being interesting outside of those tropes, bl manhwas in 2018-2019 were especially amazing i miss them, the most interesting stories nowadays have like 5/6 chapters ☹
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28 12,2024
Many, many, maaaany transmigration story always have a maid who's a villain and she's usually characterized by being a thief, abusive to the mc and or "slutty", this trope anger me so much, i hate the "abusive to the rich mc whose literally a noble woman" the most, do people actually think these maids had any sorts of power in the house they worked in? They were the one getting abused not the other way around and i'm going to be honest i don't give a fuck if the maid steals from those rich ass nobles.
I hate it so much when the maid is blamed for sleeping with a noble men and made out to be the slutty one or whatever, the power dynamic here is clear and the one in power isn't the maid who could literally loose her job if she doesn't accept the advances. I get it's all a fantasy and it's not meant to be realistic but the misogyny in these stories drive me up the wall.
So many of these stories act like the mc is owed servitude why are "Fantasy" romance authors so afraid to actually make a good commentary on classism or be slightly nuanced , hell they could even make a story about a disabled noble woman getting abused by their caretaker (who wouldn't be a fuckass maid) since sadly disabled people are mostly abused and killed by the people who are supposed to be taking care of them and it's not really talked about like at all but no we need badass scenes of the mc slapping impoverished women who work in literal servitude for pennies .
This is my third rant in the last 24 hours i'm sorry y'all, i just like talking. You could say i'm that friend who's too woke
I hate it so much when the maid is blamed for sleeping with a noble men and made out to be the slutty one or whatever, the power dynamic here is clear and the one in power isn't the maid who could literally loose her job if she doesn't accept the advances. I get it's all a fantasy and it's not meant to be realistic but the misogyny in these stories drive me up the wall.
So many of these stories act like the mc is owed servitude why are "Fantasy" romance authors so afraid to actually make a good commentary on classism or be slightly nuanced , hell they could even make a story about a disabled noble woman getting abused by their caretaker (who wouldn't be a fuckass maid) since sadly disabled people are mostly abused and killed by the people who are supposed to be taking care of them and it's not really talked about like at all but no we need badass scenes of the mc slapping impoverished women who work in literal servitude for pennies .
This is my third rant in the last 24 hours i'm sorry y'all, i just like talking. You could say i'm that friend who's too woke
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I NEED to visit Ireland, I'm to Ireland what weebs are to Japan, I LOVE IRELAND
about read 1000 manga or more
I still feel guilty for when i threw away the coins my mom gave me at like 7 because they weren't enough to see the circus
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I want to see WOMEN, GIRLS! Lemme hear about y'all favorite female characters.
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On a completely random note, idk if my period is close or if my melatonins have side effects but uve been crying over the fact TikTok user anucatittawansofi gets so much hate even though all he does is sing ☹
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29 04,2025
I come across some people that didn't realize a lot of self proclaimed fujos are homophobic which surprised me, I've been in the anime community since i was 11 and i was already pretty into BLS and that was before 2020 so old anime fandom type shenanigans were happening one of which was homophobic ass fujoshi who were completely open about the fact it was only the idea of the gay relationship they liked not gay people, that's why the term fujoshi grew to have a negative meaning, it seem some people have grown too chronically online and forgot that the major exports of "yaoi" is from conservative ass countries, most of these yaoi are very much not realistic because realistic depiction of gay relationship is not marketable to a homophobic audience lol
Anyway what's your opinion?
Anyway what's your opinion?
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18 11,2024
I fucking hate feet so much, every time i see them during a smut scene i gotta skip it
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I hate when authors make the mc get assaulted/stalked/have their lives put in danger just so the love interest can come and be their white knight, and after that the mc is never affected by the traumatic event they went through they just move on, i just finished reading a story i overall liked but that had the mc be almost assaulted and MURDERED and right after he went and had sex with the ml c'mon now
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My mother side of the family has two cool things a naming routine where almost all of our names start with I and idk if this is that cool but premature white hairs, i know it sucks for some but i genuinely really like it lol. On the less cool note ovarian cancer runs in the family so i gotta get check out
