gumdrops's question (6)

Like, if your partner cheats on you, but they apologize and promise they'll change and they DO show signs of changing and becoming better.. but would you still date them and get back together?? Like, is it possible to change?

By that I mean like yall are acting like u guys are dating already but theres no label attached.

Like you say "I love you" "I miss you" and u guys kiss and give each other gifts and stuff like that BUT you're not ACTUALLY dating yet.

Do u like that kinda thing? Or is it dumb?

Can someone type out what exactly is going on ?? and dont tell me to check ur albums and the proofs cuz idfk who hajun is..

Im sorry I only come here to read and dip but i am SO curious what is going AWNNN

Someone pls tell me from the beginning who is hajun n what did he doo ????

like whats the TOP priority ?? what is the most important thing your significant other MUST have??

like, if they dont meet that requirement, u wont date them??

for me, its definitely respect. like, if my boyfriend is disrespectful/rude to other women and women hes NOT attracted to, yeah byee.. i consider it really misogynistic if a guy cant bring himself to be nice to people he doesnt find attractive.

Like genuinely sometimes I feel like some of my friends hate me. Even for a while or because of something I said.. like im the type of person who doesnt think before speaking and immediatly regretting afterwards.. and my friends say Im like a weird kid And sometimes I feel like some people hate me for that.. I genuinely cant read people and I tend to overthink and overshare a lot but Honestly I love everyone. Even people who arent my friends Im really nice and I always smile at everyone right but maybe im overthinking but i srsly feel like my friends leave me out sometimes and they make me feel like im hated.. like even when they DO invite me out Im hesitant to actually accept the invitation because I feel like Ill js feel left out at the function..

but they are nice friends and ive had good interactions w them too !! like i dont ALWAYS feel this way i guess

idk maybe im overthinking a little bit lol but i need to fix my oversharing habit.. sometimes when im talking abt smt they js reply "why do i need to know this?" lol it makes me feel a little judged

and vice versa

which would be better as kdrama instead of anime