gumdrops's question (10)

like i dont mean i tripped down 2 steps of stairs i mean GENUINLY embarassing.. like it keeps u up at night and it haunts u till u die

Like, if your partner cheats on you, but they apologize and promise they'll change and they DO show signs of changing and becoming better.. but would you still date them and get back together?? Like, is it possible to change?

By that I mean like yall are acting like u guys are dating already but theres no label attached.

Like you say "I love you" "I miss you" and u guys kiss and give each other gifts and stuff like that BUT you're not ACTUALLY dating yet.

Do u like that kinda thing? Or is it dumb?

What should I get?? Honestly I wanna use the ipad to like draw and play games but ughh i also wanna play valorant and other games on my laptop..
like i have one right now but it cant handle those games.. i played minecraft and i was stuck on like 40 fps.. but laptops are SO expensive!!!!!! like two times more expensive than the ipad

what do i do..

Wht do yall think ab that?
Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends

so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry

like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off
but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk

Idk, what do yall think

Saw this tiktok not too long ago.. some white girl was posting ab how she loves asian guys.. honestly, it couldve been js her type.. but the way she worded it really threw me off

i think they said like "I really want an asian" and "I want an asian soo bad"
err that was really strange for me
am i reading into it too much?

Can someone type out what exactly is going on ?? and dont tell me to check ur albums and the proofs cuz idfk who hajun is..

Im sorry I only come here to read and dip but i am SO curious what is going AWNNN

Someone pls tell me from the beginning who is hajun n what did he doo ????

like whats the TOP priority ?? what is the most important thing your significant other MUST have??

like, if they dont meet that requirement, u wont date them??

for me, its definitely respect. like, if my boyfriend is disrespectful/rude to other women and women hes NOT attracted to, yeah byee.. i consider it really misogynistic if a guy cant bring himself to be nice to people he doesnt find attractive.

Like genuinely sometimes I feel like some of my friends hate me. Even for a while or because of something I said.. like im the type of person who doesnt think before speaking and immediatly regretting afterwards.. and my friends say Im like a weird kid And sometimes I feel like some people hate me for that.. I genuinely cant read people and I tend to overthink and overshare a lot but Honestly I love everyone. Even people who arent my friends Im really nice and I always smile at everyone right but maybe im overthinking but i srsly feel like my friends leave me out sometimes and they make me feel like im hated.. like even when they DO invite me out Im hesitant to actually accept the invitation because I feel like Ill js feel left out at the function..

but they are nice friends and ive had good interactions w them too !! like i dont ALWAYS feel this way i guess

idk maybe im overthinking a little bit lol but i need to fix my oversharing habit.. sometimes when im talking abt smt they js reply "why do i need to know this?" lol it makes me feel a little judged

and vice versa

which would be better as kdrama instead of anime