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I'm concerned at some of my friends tbh, they said they wanted a man like Jaekyung and wants to be abused and I'm the only one who didn't agree?? Like are you okay-- they started to list more LITERAL rapist MLs that they want as their bf-- no they didn't have trauma or anything that could explain why they behave like this (as far as I know, they were never in a relationship) but just why would you want your man to treat you like shit??

I keep thinking and came up with a conclusion that some of them just think most of these bl relationships are just "rough and sexy" bec tbh in media, sex is usually portrayed as something aggresive = to you feeling apparently more good. Like idk ppl are just horny and think a sex-driven relationship is a "strong relationship".

He shamed one of my friends for being preggo at 16 (she's a victim) and he has 3 perfectly good windows and there are 5 rocks infront of his house. It's so asking to be broken. No cctvs around and nobody is around at 2pm - 4pm bec it's usually the hottest time so they stay inside their homes in air conditioner. I can run and not get caught. Also I had collected cow poop (I needed it for my garden bec soil ykyk) but I can also throw this at his house... Someone tell me yes.

Went to my fav gay bar again, only thing good abt this bar is the drag queens but wym I can't find a handsome six pack abs man that's around my age, or a very beautiful twink who almost passes as an Idol but instead there's bunch of creepy yt foreigners who's like 30+ that obv has a fetish for Asians... It is a bar yes so adults but why can't I find guys atleast below age 25. These hoes in BLs find dudes that always around their age like 21-23 wym few of these bitches has a wife at home. Like don't get me wrong there are good gays here but they're just often here for sex-partner relationship.

Like actually-- muhluhmuh experience I am so finding everyday new red flags abt my ex after that romanticisation wore off... I was a dumbass for always excusing it cus in my head "he can make mistakes" and I just hit my head in the wall... Like no wonder why my friends rooted for a break up like damn I loved him still. I was applying manhwa solution to my relationship which is funny cus im researching this and now I realise I have to interview myself

No cus like I just want this cus im so bothered with the way ppl pronounce it cus wtf is yowee when it's yahwi it was a slur in 2021-22 for some reason.

Don't judge a book by its cover but where is one time you did that and you thought it would be good but it isn't

Justice for omegas...

no cus like how are some ppl denying they're just friends like hoe?? You don't say "if I can't have you no one can!" ur gay. "why haven't you replied to my text messages" uh-huh babe ur gay. I'm sad they're doomed yaoi cus they're forced to be enemies

Lowkey a vent honestly I think I'll tell mine to be careful and be honest with his feelings, the lack of communication in my part with my relationship had slowly torn me apart cause I'm not "fine" with the way they were acting, on how they kept ignoring the feelings I had for them and the amounts of times my buttons was pushed and I had to always excuse it just so they could be forgiven because I knew deep down they don't want to hurt anyone. Not on purpose. Now kinda everything's too late for it.

Grief doesn't really fade, it doesn't get smaller or bigger it just stays there but you can grow strong enough to handle it and move on.

I had tears of joy when i found a vid of my old bf kinda just complimenting me and telling me stuff that boosts my motivation to live. I often rewatch it cus im not over bro (its fine he's ashes now) but hahaha so far this is my best fave tears of joy memory, i had tons more but i dont wanna make this thread too long and i wanna hear wholesome stories!

ik it isnt how it works like theres alot of steps to process but hypothetically you can make new laws. So what would it be?

Who do you think killed you?

I just wanna own a bakery and a cafe but it's not popular as it used to be before

Say something controversial yall instead of the obvious answers like abuser x victim.

How does it feel

GREET THEM GUYS IDC IF IT ISN'T YET IN YOUR COUNTRY

How do you think that would go?

It's just I don't GET myself? I mean I know it's hard to let go and it takes years to move on but I tried to have new lovers and like this year alone I alr went with like 4 ppl and they would only last like few weeks. The longest one was 2 months All I could think about is always my dead ex-bf and he wasn't even healthy for me </3 the reasons for breaking up is like because I'm still inlove with him... I tell them beforehand tho that I'm having a hard time moving on because technically we never broke up. I gave up on love life and just be single.