SoftPussyboy's answer (13)

I have a preference for certain positions and appearances. I think it's fine for everyone to have them. We shouldn't take personal what other people prefers or waste our time yucking their yum. Like, I would love to see a big buff submissive seme with a pretty dominant uke, but I haven't found any.   reply

Doing a sexual act you are not OK with just because the person you love enjoys it. I hate it.   1 reply

Someone recently recommended me, Honey Bear. I haven't read it but according to the tags the seme is a virgin. (●'◡'●)ﾉ   2 reply

I don't know if it is unpopular? Having preferences is OK! You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Be clear on your boundaries and you'll be fine! (▰˘◡˘▰)   reply

Today, I was thinking about one. "Straight ukes" I'm OK with a straight semes but not ukes. Why? because (like 90% of the time) when a straight seme decides to try sex with a another man, is HIS choice. However, when is a straight uke is someone else deciding for them, and they "discover" (at best) they like it, because the dick is that good. I hat......   2 reply

A guy put something in my drink once and you know what happened after that. Now, I only drink when I'm alone at home, it has served me really well since then.   1 reply

I haven't read enough to like or dislike the genre, but the one BL I read and liked was December. Why? I feel the experience of gender of the omegas to be very relatable to my own experience of gender. It is rare for me to find media that mirrors me, so I'm interested if nothing else. (I do agree on the points you bring up, but you were asking wha......   reply

I don't hate it, but buff dark haired ukes make me sad, it is really hard for me to watch a man I'm attracted to bottoming. There is nothing wrong with it, but I have been rejected a lot for being a bottom that it feels like a rejection. It's weird, and I'm broken, but you asked. ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply

I have been in relationships with men as a man. It's hard work, I don't want to make a sweeping generalization because there is always exceptions, but the lack of emotional intelligence and empathy is devastating. Making real connections with men is really hard, heartbreaking. So, to answer your question, no, I don't see anything to envy about it.   1 reply

I'm a witch for the spiritual bits, but not religious at all. I think religions are dangerous filled with anti-intellectuallism, anti-science, bigotry, and violence. I wish they were only annoying.   reply

I'm an AMAB nonbinary person attracted to men, and I'm also an artist who loves graphic storytelling, so I naturally fell into this rabbit hole. Beyond my artistic interest, I read it because BL depicts a type of male character I can relate to (the same type of man most people are hating in other answers). I don't get that anywhere else, so I cheri......   reply