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Has anyone read this and if so what are your thoughts? I just really need to talk about this with someone cause I cannot fully express the emotions that I am feeling right now after reading that. Wtf.

Yall i was reading this comment and in the comment the person said “you people” and somebody else replied with “wdym you people???”



AND THIS ONE GUY


WENT ON A WHOLE RANT


ABOUT HOW THE PERSON WHO RESPONDED WITH “wdym you people???” WAS SOMEHOW THE ACTUAL RACIST ONE????



LIKE HE LEGIT MADELIKE 4 COMMENTS AND I MEAN PARAGRAPH LONG COMMENTS TALKING BOUT “yall always wanna make everything about race” “he never mentioned black people you just assumed” “he probably meant low income households and white people can be poor too”


Only for the OG commenter to reply with “i was talking about black people though”


Like that shit had me so weak


Anyways send me some screenshots of funny comments you’ve found in the wild

Ok so I was at a cafe with two of my friends and I was telling them about the arguments that y’all have on this site about fujoshis and how funny it is to read them and my friends being the normies they are asked me what a fujoshi is so I explained to them the history behind it and how it once used as a term to put women down saying they’ll never be married but then they reclaimed that word but now it means someone who fetishizes men. My straight white female friend said that the people putting down the fujoshis are wrong because the term itself was used to oppress women in the first place but now that they’re taking it back people are bashing them again. My gay white male friend said that the people calling themselves fujoshis are wrong because no matter what the term meant in the past it now stands for something that harms the LGBTQ+ community. My swf friend said that the fact that they are trying to change the word back into a word that oppresses women and stop women from using it would be like trying to change the n word back into a word that oppresses black people and stop them from using it. My gwm friend said that this wasn’t true and that she couldn’t really speak on it because she hasn’t been oppressed as a gay male. She said that he couldn’t speak on it because he hasn’t been oppressed as a woman and that he can hide the fact that he’s gay but she can’t die the fact that she’s a woman.

They kept arguing about this for a while and it soon escalated and turned into a conversation about which group was the most oppressed. My swf friend argued that black people are the most oppressed because even today they are still getting persecuted by the police while my gwm friend said that LGBTQ+ members are being persecuted more because there are still countries where people get killed if they are gay. She said that it’s not true because people can hide their sexuality but they can’t hide the color of their skin but he said that it’s not that easy to hide their sexuality.

They couldn’t come to an agreement or agree to disagree so we all decided to go home and they both left feeling pretty pissed and I’m pretty sure they’re not talking to each other rn. I feel like each side expected me to agree with them since I am female, black, and bi but I just didn’t say anything and watched them argue. Honestly, I know I should care because I check all boxes of this argument but I really don’t. I’m already dealing with enough problems. I don’t have the time to sit down and ponder about which part of me society hates most. Plus overall both of their arguments seemed pretty wack. I’m really considering just telling them to fucking get over themselves and that the argument was stupid in the first place but at the same time I feel responsible because I was the one who mentioned the fujoshi thing in the first place. Idk dude. What should I do?

Gartic phone time baby. I swear to god if y’all hoes go afk again I’m taking your first born child.
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Turns out I have self esteem issues.
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The responses to the racism in the newest chapter of a certain manwha (if you know you know) has once again reminded me why i hate weebs so much. Like the reasonings ive see people use to justify this is so bizarre to me.


Please touch grass and i am praying for your recovery.

There is this girl who swears up and down that people want her man


Her boyfriend is in a class with me and me and him are doing a project together


BUT EVERYTIME WE MEET UP TO WORK ON THE PROJECT SHE HAS TO BE THERE TO SHAPERONE


LIKE MAAM WE ARE IN THE LIBRARY TF DO YOU THINK WE’RE DOING



Also fun fact he’s not allowed to have others girls numbers so every time I wanna text him about the project I have to text her and then she’ll tell him



And you would think that if she’s doing all this that he’s gotta be the finest man you’ve ever seen





TELL ME WHY THIS MAN LOOKS LIKE FUCKING SHREK



actually let me not say Shrek because if I’m being honest I would give Shrek the sloppiest toppy



THIS MAN LOOKS LIKE LORD FARQUAD



LIKE NO OFFENSE TO HIM BUT HE IS NOT CUTE ENOUGH FOR HER TO BE DOING ALL THAT


Also apparently he used to be in this friend group with a lot of girls and when they got together his gf made him drop the ENTIRE FRIEND GROUP


But that’s just a rumor so don’t quote me on that


Anyways my point is no one wants your man ella and everyone who knows you thinks you’re fucking crazy

Do you guys think some people are born evil? Do you guys think some people are inherently evil? (As in they’re horrible and no amount of therapy, happiness, or even going back in time can stop them from being horrible)

Do you even think that we can call people evil? Like i know some people say things like “i dont think anyone’s a ‘bad’ person” but i just dont agree.



Like i read this article about this 8 year old serial killer (Amarjeet Sada in case anyone was interested) and usually with serial killers people try and dissect what happened in their childhood to see if anything caused them to become killers


But he was 8


NOTHING happened in his childhood. For the most part he had a normal life and it really just seemed like he killed just because he wanted to. And not just once. THREE. This 8 year old killed THREE BABIES cause he was BORED. Like is this not proof that some people really are just beyond help?

Idk what do y’all think?

Everyone using this website is going to be killed. Everyone except the most degenerate person here. You have to prove that you’re the most degenerate person using only 1 sentence or picture.

LET THE GAMES BEGIN!

Not wanting to date trans people is one thing. Making a whole sexuality out of not wanting to date trans people is another. No one is forcing you to date trans people and not wanting to date trans people does not make you transphobic. Making a whole sexuality about not wanting to date trans people is transphobic. If someone doesn’t want to date black people that’s completely fine but when they start calling themselves “mayosexuals” don’t you see how that’s a problem?

Yeah I know it sucks that it’s not an actual comic series but you realize promos help the author’s story gain more publicity which helps the novel get turned into an actual comic. It’s not that uncommon either. I mean do you even know how many stories turned into full time comics after having promos?

why do people act like shoujo is so boring why BL is not? They are litterally the same shit just copied and pasted.

The setting of most shoujo and BL? High school? The romance in shoujo and BL? Preppy and friendly MC who gets embarrassed easily falls in love with dark haired mysterious ML who never blushes and is an antisocial loner but everyone at school thinks he's so cool and has a dark and mysterious past and childhood trauma. The plot of shoujo and BL smut. ML rapes the MC at some point but forgives him and ends up with him anyway because they dont know what a backbone is.

It’s gotten to the point where i dont read BL anymore and i rarely read shoujo now. It is literally the same shit but i dont ever see shoujo readers act like its so superior so why do fujoshis feel the need to act like BL is peak literature just so they can justify fetishizing gay men.

Make it make sense.

Ok so we all know the stereotypes: fetishizing gay men, likes rape, are secretly all pedos. Everyday you see at least 1 question bashing fujoshis. I used to be on the other side of this argument but I’ve had a change of heart. I now think these are mostly false claims. Don’t get me wrong I’m well aware that there are fujoshis like that but I think it’s wrong to say that all of them or even most of them act like this. I also think it’s wrong to put all the blame on fujoshis. What about (this pains me to say this because I’m one of them) the GL fans. Don’t even get me started on how sexualized lesbians are. The only difference is that there aren’t as many GL fans as there are BL fans on this site. (Also GL fans don’t really have a name but I’ll get more into that in my second question that I’ll be posting). Also have you guys ever really thought about the age group that are saying these kinds of things? Most of them are kids and while that doesn’t make it any better it does make it more understandable. These are young girls who are just getting into BL manga and don’t really have a way to express themselves. And when all the most popular BL have at least one rape scene in them how do you expect them to react. It’s no wonder there are so many young fujoshis that fantasize about rape when it’s literally being shoved into their faces as soon as they open this site. So really the point of this was to tell you all to calm down. Instead of bashing them constantly and getting them discouraged, show them the wrongs of their actions. And do it KINDLY. (Key word KINDLY).

What if all of these hate clubs are just secretly people trying to give love to their favs. I mean think about it. No one who gets a hate club actually gets hated on. In fact, they get even more love then they did before. So my theory is that whoever is making these hate clubs is just trying to spread love towards the people they like.

Ok so you know how BL fans have like an official title. Don’t you think it’s kinda weird how GL fans don’t? So to distract myself from that long ass paragraph that I just finished writing, tell me what you think GL fans are called or what you think they should be called. It doesn’t have to be a Japanese name either. It can be an English name if you want. I look forward to reading these.

Im sorry but what is with the rise of blatant racism on instagram?????



Like some of yall really have no shame because there is no way you’re making racist comments when your account has your full goverment name and face all over it


And it will be so unprovoked too

Saw this video of a black girl showing off different types of hairstyles





Tell me why there were men in the moments being like “would be so much better if she was light skin” “so pretty if only she was light skin” and these are comments with hundreds of likes and those were on the TAME side



Like is this supposed to be a joke? What part of it is funny?





Don’t even get me started on the sexism/homophobia because i stg


Anyways now im mad so recommend me some good kdramas because i need something new to watch (im looking for a romance story that would make me cry but still has a happy ending)

Congratulations we’ve had a whole 2 days full of people talking about the same shit. There’s the drama you guys wanted so I don’t know why y’all were complaining. There was a question on here before asking if you guys like it when there’s tea or when it’s quiet and the MAJORITY of you said tea. But now that y’all actually have it, you keep complaining about how they should take it to the dms. So I don’t want to see ANYBODY complain about how the site is “boring” anymore. Be consistent.

I pour the milk first then the cereal

Can we stop using “trauma” as a plot point in manga when you’re gonna make the MC forget about it in a matter of seconds?

Can we ESPECIALLY not make the MC get back together with their abusers?

I mean if the MC forgives them and all then yeah I get that because forgiveness can be a way for people to heal but now the MC loves them again?

Huh?

And the only thing worse than using trauma as a half-assed plot point is using trauma to justify the actions of an unjustifiable shitty character.

“What you’re a mass murderer who killed thousands of innocent people but you only did this your dog died and your mom was abusive? Aww I feel so bad for you sad boy”

Fucking cringe

As someone with a cultural name thats very long and very difficult to pronounce for English speakers the argument against “weird” names is so odd to me


By weird names I mean names that are either unconventional (ex. Valley, Saffron, divine)

Or common names with weird spellings

Idk this though came to me after reading a Reddit story about this girl saying that her sister was naming her baby something weird and asking if she was the asshole for telling her not to and everyone was agreeing with her and giving her reasons why but all of the reasons made no sense to me

“She’s going to get bullied”
“People aren’t going to know how to pronounce/spell it”
“It’s going to be harder for them to get jobs”
“People are going to look down on them”

These are all things that also apply to my name but whenever I bring that up it’s always

“There’s a difference between cultural names and naming your kid something weird”

Why?

Why is there a difference?


Why is it wrong and uncalled for when i get bullied for my name but if a kid with a weird name gets bullied it’s always “what did you expect?”


Why is my mom not selfish and immature for not giving me an “American” name when we moved here but other parents are for giving their kids “stupid” names?


Why is it wrong for people to assume things about me and my mom because of my name but it’s fine to assume that your parent is dumb if you have a weird name?


Why?


Like people are litterally saying that it’s borderline ABUSE to give your kid a badly spelled name like are yall serious rn?

Why is the focus “you should do what you can to limit the chances of your kids getting bullied” and not “hey maybe we should address the serious bullying problem in schools”


It doesn’t make sense to me and honestly just makes me mad


Anyways what do y’all think?