Basically, you listen.
Get them to share what’s on their mind, don’t make it about you (the “oh yeah, I had that even worse” moments suck).
Clarify, reword things to be sure you understand.
Acknowledge their feelings.
Don’t tell them what to do, even if they ask. You are not the problem fixer and “you should/ you need to/ you must�...... reply
The MC, an older salaryman who has been senior manager and career focused. Now he has his young cousin to care for following the death of his uncle and he is frazzled adapting to a toddler.
The lover, a young neighbour in the apartment complex who is soon in pursuit of the MC as he and his younger brother help the MC.
The boss of MC, closeted bi,...... 1 reply
My skirts were a bit short for that. Though I would now understand why I had slow traffic behind me as I rode to school…
I would head home for the appropriate underwear. But first I would wipe my bicycle seat. reply
Tbh you sound like millions of young kids out there. Therefore, by definition you are pretty cringe but it’s all ok. Thankfully we change as we get older reply
I may take breaks every so often, but as long as they keep making these great stories and adorable couples, I will always return for more new content or to re read older favourites. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ 2 reply
Hard to say without more context.
They could be that sort who give a lot and think you are selfish and taking them for granted. That’s my first thought.
Or, they could simply feel unappreciated.
But if you feel it’s used for control then you probably have your reasons knowing the people who said it and the situation reply
I was just watching some vids on martial arts masters from Asia. 74 year old Meena from Indonesia with Kalari, Jigme from the Drukpa Order nunnery in the Himalayas, Nepal with Holy Kung Fu (swords and fans), 35 y.o Liu Xumin from Sichuan Province China who practices Long Spout Tea (A.D 220 - 280), 71 y.o Li Liangui of The Ancient Art of Joint Dislo...... reply
I had a family member who was having terrible nightmares for weeks and some sleep paralysis. When he woke from one he swore he saw a shadow creature in the corner of his room but if you looked directly at it you couldn't see it. We got him to bless his room and the cold feeling he got in there immediately improved plus no more nightmares.
Maybe y...... reply