Cestelle's answer page 34 (1136)

Isn't Telegram the place all the weirdo conspiracy people fled to for their "free speech" bullshit after Twitter finally started banning them? Why would you wanna use that, lmao.   reply

The people who sit there and try to "educate" anyone who has criticism of fujos and yaoi/bl on "the definition of fujoshi" are the same people who say "anti-fujos are misogynists and terfs" and that "gay men are trying to police and control women because they don't like women exploring their sexuality" or some other dumb shit. If someone starts li......   reply

Shipping real people is fucking gross regardless of whether or not the people you're doing it to are okay with it.   1 reply

Most of the "trolls" are just people shitposting 'cause they think they're funny. Which they're not, like, at all, but apparently we're looking at peak 14yo humor or something...   reply

inb4 all the rape normalizers clown themselves trying to defend it   reply

I wouldn't call it beef... more like Black Kageyama got free validation because two of the more problematic people on the site don't like them. Really I dunno what they thought was gonna happen with this... You literally cannot dunk on Black Kageyama without making a complete and utter fool of yourself. It's just not possible.   1 reply

They're not necessary but it's not like they're hurting anything, so use 'em or don't, who cares? But I would like to point out that acting like you're doing something for neurodivergent people by using them is incredibly patronizing and completely misunderstands the issue you think you're solving by using them. Been seeing people outside of Reddi......   reply

Sounds like a you problem.   reply

How many times do y'all need to freak out about this only for nothing to fucking happen for shit to finally click that the site ain't going nowhere, smh...   reply

"now I’m thinking all those games and videos are just queerbating for bank in reaction to things like this" Kpop, especially when it comes boy groups, is fucking full of queerbaiting and it's honestly disgusting. Doesn't help that large swathes of their audience are looking for any little thing to fuel whatever gross ass fantasies they have in t......   2 reply

I mean, if someone reads yaoi and enjoys it, especially considering just how chock full of problems it is as a genre, "weird" is definitely kinder than the term I'd use, regardless of their sexuality. For them in particular though? The thing that I find weird, or rather flat out fucking bizarre, is that they out of all people are as deep in the fe......   1 reply

As someone with actual disagnosed shit plural, some of this is... questionable. Like, what are we calling "delusions" here, 'cause if we mean the " 15yo army thinks their favorite bts member is secretly communicating with them" kind of delusional, that's not "mentally ill", that's just really fucking creepy. And even if someone *was*, that doesn't......   2 reply

If she is and feels inclined to tell you then she will in her own time. You "wanting to know" is never a good enough reason to ask someone something that they might not be ready or might not want to divulge to you. If someone asked me if I was gay, regardless of their relation with me, I'd be extremely put off. You're asking how to ask something t......   reply

God, why did I know exactly who this was gonna be about... People have been trying to get them banned for a long time, doubt it's gonna happen any time soon.   1 reply

Problematic posts: - "Anti-fujoshi shut the fuck up challenge" - All the other posts besides ^ where non-mlm people have the fucking gall to try and dictate what is and isn't fetishizing mlm people, most recent was "reading bl isn't fetishizing" - The one about "fujoshi eyes", - The one complaining about lesbians on netflix, - The one about heterop......   1 reply

I'm too cynical to believe this is real for even a second, but on the off chance that it is, I can't imagine that asking for advice on the site where people supposedly shove grapes up their ass was the smartest thing you could have went with.   reply

I mean, I know a couple things were posted for specific reasons: - The "Yaoi was created as anti-feminist propaganda" bullshit or whatever the hell it was called was posted specifically to spread false information and make people mad. - The religious fanfic posts were specifically made to piss people off. - The heterophobia posts from around a m......   reply

Uploaders aren't shielded from criticism simply because they're "doing something they don't have to do". That's absolutely ridiculous. If your scans are bad, readers telling you your scans are bad is how you know you should improve. If you're bad at translating, cleaner, typesetting, redrawing, etc., how are you going to know you're bad at it if n......   1 reply

Just continually call it out when you see it. The fact that people can't delete their replies makes it even better. People try and defend their problematic shit, clown the hell outta themselves in the process, and it's stuck there for everyone to see. It's great.   1 reply