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block him again and move on, him trying to contact you after you blocked him the first time is always a horrible sign, especially if all he did was reitterate that he wants nudes. You can't trust someone who would go out of their way to block evade to respect any boundaries you have in a future relationship with them.   reply

asexuality is more about the lack of attraction to anyone over an inability to feel pleasure or a lack of libido. You could still be ace but I don't think that being unable to pleasure yourself is necessarily a sign that you are.   reply

ok, first up, I don't think it's "odd" that you can't find easily accessible pills that can actually kill you because generally people don't want other people to die. Second, i 100% get that you don't want some stranger on here to play hero and tell you to seek professional help or anything but as someone who went through a similar thing i found th......   reply

istg if someone on fucking mangago actually ended up altering humanity's dna and we end up in the omegaverse or sm shit I will absolutely lose it.   2 reply

Holy shit you’re stupid, what’s the problem with someone wearing something they think is cute? If you can’t keep it in your pants just seeing someone who isn’t dressed like a victorian housewife then I don’t think that’s their problem. Why should anyone have to choose what they wear or how their present themselves based on what you thin......   reply

I’m 100% with you for everything here but I’d also love to add that just not being attracted to people romantically isn’t something you have to feel guilty about, I have no clue if you’ve heard of it or already identify but you could very well just be aromantic. There would only be a problem if you didn’t acknowledge that the women you ar......   1 reply

Fujoshi but mostly just cause i’m outside of her target range, both of them sound insufferable though it’s just that the hatero has reason to actively attack me rather than the fujoshi who’ll just miss me be a hair   reply

was “gifted” in elementary, now i have zero motivation, don’t know how to study, am actively failing half my classes, if i’m not immediately good at something i can’t convince myself to do it, depressed, i spend a minimum of 3 hours a day on this website reading and rereading stuff, i have zero plans for the future or dreams, constantly f......   1 reply

I literally own so many manga that I have stacks of them on the floor since I ran our of shelf space (including putting manga sideways on top of others) I would probably need at least 2 or 3 full time jobs to afford buying the sheer amount I read on here though T-T   reply

panic and attempt to just leave, most likely dropping or falling comically on my way out.   reply

I think you could, there’s a chance that the ‘sexual’ attraction you’re feeling is just aesthetic attraction (I believe it’s called) and some ace people can still kiss as far as i’m aware/don’t always feel repulsed to the idea of sex. It’s a very complicated thing with lots of grey areas though, I think the most important thing is w......   reply

I was telling a story and halfway through realised it made no sense if the listener (my mom) didn't know I was ace, I was already too far in to drop it so I just commited which turned out pretty well for me overall.   reply

random letters that sound vaugely name-ish, I have a regular name for other sites/games but i didn't use them here out of fear of ppl I know irl finding me (which one of em did anyways and I will never recover T^T)   1 reply

Hatsune Miku Colorful Stage, Memento Mori, and Alchemy Stars   reply

ok but have you considered reading rainbow city?   reply

Hey! I’m Oriole and the first time I had to actively talk someone out of suicide was when i was 13! I’ve been the therapist friend since around then and I can tell you all that wasn’t the last time, in between attempts I help people with shitty families, shitty partners, and whatever else might be bothering them! I was also harassed on discor......   reply

If I were to ever have kids I think I would let them on the internet but only with restrictions/supervision ex. no social media until their early teens (ish) and I would make sure they have good media literacy. Lots of talks about the possible dangers of the internet and how to stay safe here. I’d also try and match my own internet plan as closel......   reply

never even occurred to me to check rating tbh, i normally just go for whatever has the most interesting synopsis/recs from friends. i do have one friend tho who refuses to read anything under 9.7 tho so that makes it hell to get him to read anything i do. i think it!s you're unsure about a manga then why not try it? if you don't like it it's not as......   reply

I think it’s difficult to judge whether or not you’re in the wrong without knowing any context or his side of the story. There’s a chance that whatever you said touched on one of his own insecurities more than the race joke you mentioned. I recommend asking him for specifics on what you did wrong because you don’t know and if he refuses the......   reply

I screamed at my friend till he told me which site he used for manga (i was a lil bit too stupid to google free manga at the time)   reply