Canah UwU's question (7)

When I was fifteen, I discovered this site, now I'm twenty, anyway, I had this "Fujoshi" era back then, so cringry. Being so obsessed with Yaoi back then that I read every night and stuff. Now, I joined to FB BL group and saw this post that blew up before, "If my boyfriend cheated on me, I'll be okay if it's a guy" the post says, I looked at it with confusion/disgust when I saw the comments on how a lot of women would want their BF cheated on them with another guy, there's even other comments says, "If I can watch them do it, I'll enjoy it after I break up with him/Forgive him" that was kinda fucked up (THEY WERE GROWN ASS WOMEN. I WAS TEENAGER BACK THEN) I was very dumbfounded by this and disgusted, Did BL really ate your brain that you want your man to fuck another man to feed in your disgusting fantasies? There's also moments where people who reads too much BL, fetishize it so much that they'll straight up ask a gay couple about inappropriate questions and stuff? Tf? And the worst stuff is, When a Fujoshi becomes a mom, there's post that if they become a mom, they want their son to become a gay and wonder, ARE THEY GONNA BE A TOP OR BOTTOM!? Fetishizing your kids isn't good also! So yeah. Be a normal BL reader. Don't bring BL too much in real life by the way, I had that phase back then,

(Pardon me for my grammar) My friend and her BF got into a bus accident few months ago, the cause was the truck collided with the bus. Her boyfriend Jacob died along with the majority of the passengers. Only My bestfriend, Mae and three other people survived. According to the people who found them, Jacob was holding my friend in his arms, protecting her with his whole life, Unfortunately Jacob didn't made it when they brought him to the hospital. When I got this news, I was devastated on what happened. Unfortunately, Mae wasn't able to make it to Jacob's funeral because she was in coma for two months. The worst part is, the one who organized Jacob's funeral is his friend Mark and Mark's parents because Jacob cut ties with his parents and he didn't told us about his family that much, maybe Mae knew about them since she's Jacob GF however she's in coma for weeks. Mae woke up in coma last month, I was so happy and sad because I have to be the one who needs to tell her that Jacob, her boyfriend died because Mark and I are the only one who knew that she and Jacob is in relationship cuz Mae kept it a secret from her strict parents but when I visited Mae in her hospital, She didn't remember me or anyone at all, Her doctor said, Post-traumatic amnesia typically occurs after a survivor wakes up from a coma so she had little to no memories at all, the doctor also stated that it will take a few days or weeks to regain her memories. I decided to not tell her about jacob yet because she just woke up with no memories and lost a lots of weight, So I don't want to just throw her a devastating news that her boyfriend died. A few days after Mae woke up, I visited her to the hospital but I was so shock when Mark is with her and acting like her boyfriend!? So basically Mark told her that he is Mae's boyfriend for a long time, I know Mark liked Mae since highschool but I can't believe he just betrayed Jacob who is his friend like that by pretending to be Mae's boyfriend, When we were finally alone while Mae does her therapy session with a nurse to practice walking, Mark begged me not to tell the truth to Mae because he wanted to experience her love and loving her as his own for once which was a total bs, but I was silenced when he confessed to me that he found out he has cancer for a while now, Mark wasn't able to tell all of us before due to the bus accident and Jacob's death and he had so much going on, so he just wanted to be with Mae for now, so that's why whenever I see Mark, he always looks like he didn't sleep and lost a little weight. It's already been three weeks and Mae has no sign of recovering her memory and she and Mark has been getting along and being happy in their "relationship " Should I tell Mae the truth? If you read it here, I'm actually just shitting you with the story I thought during a bus ride, lmao.

And send my manuscript to a publishing company who's asking for BL novel manuscript But the thing is I am Beginner at this. I've only written fanfics before but we won't know unless we try right? Anyway, My question is for people who likes to write books.

Do you prefer first person or third person?
Any tips for this starving and amateur writer?
How should I fix my grammar and writing?
Thank you for the kind people who answer.

My cat is important in my life, I'm panicking since she's straining to pee ever since afternoon, (She May have some bladder blockage or UTI, idk) I know there's a problem with her and she needs to immediately taken to a vet but the thing is, things are rough nowadays. I don't have a job, my mom just lost her job last month and I'm still studying. I'm just in college, struggling with tuition, my family doesn't have money either, I'm living day by day eating noodles or processed food, yes, I can't afford to take her to a vet considering the vet is very expensive, and I live in Philippines. I can't take a damn loan, but I can't just let my cat suffer, I don't want to lose her like I've lost my cat before.

The one biting in the neck stuff to be legal mates. I wonder where it was originate. So I was making an omegaverse story, thinking maybe I should put on the neck stuff. But I was having a second thought because, the biting the neck stuff is kinda weird considering
1. Won't the omega bleed to death if they bite very hard? I saw how they draw this. A lot of blood came out. What is the alpha bit where the blood flow? Does they need to be ER?
2. Won't humans receive some kind of bacteria from the bite? Consider mouth is the most place with bacteria.

Can you give me more some ideas and stuff about omegaverse? The lore behind it or more ways to become legal mates.

I'm planning on writing a BL book with omegaverse theme. I want to ask what's makes omegaverse good?
Exclude things like Male omega can get pregnant, But pheromones thingy, fated mate or biting one's neck to be mates is good? Or cliche and boring?
Whats your favorite omegaverse BL? (Alpha x Alpha enjoyer, sorry to burst your bubble but I'm looking for Alpha x omega)

My sister, almost 26 planned to marry a Chinese dude, 29 next month in June or July.
Long story short, they never met in real life, they just met this month.
Someone introduce my sister to this Chinese dude. My sister doesn't have work for now, since working in Philippines with the salary of bare minimum won't get you somewhere and they are picky and have high standard of education so my sis is getting a hard time to look for a new job, so someone she knows introduce him to a Chinese guy who's looking for a wife, 29 years old and apparently he is an "Introvert" that's why he doesn't have any gf yet, and willing to support my sister, has a job, house and a car. So anyway, the one who introduce him to my sister is working on my sister's visa in China and they planned the wedding in June which is I hope this won't happen at all nor continue.
I am very against this

Why? Because THEY DON'T EVEN SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE
The dude doesn't know English. My sister doesn't know mandarin that much so the two talks in we chat with translation, but how can they even understand each other??
Second, My sister is pretty but not beautiful enough to treat with pretty privilege, so we don't know the purpose of the guy why he suddenly wanted to marry a filipino woman, like how can we even trust him!? What's his purpose of marrying a filipino woman???
Third, my sister doesn't really love him, she's marrying for the opportunity to go abroad and find a job in China since working in Philippines doesn't get you somewhere, that's why a lot of Filipinos goes to abroad.
My brother, mother and I against this but my father support my sis because she's already an adult and can make her own decision.