Fl is ok.

Have you ever heard of depression?

The reason she is this way is bc she was treated as royalty. In her past life, she was hard working and didn’t enjoy her job. Now in this new world, she can relax as much as she likes. But the downside to that is loss in motivation. I agree that the emperor is only trying to help, but to endlessly push her to her limit every day is tiring, and not helpful at all. What she needs is rest, motivation, and patience. People are mad bc she is lazy and depressed, but she has every right be. She has no one, no friends, family, nothing. She's in an unknown world where she must relearn EVERYTHING from scratch.

Meant to dislike

Dont worry i did it for u

what is the like to dislike ratio like?

16:9 for dislike

That ain't looking good for the OP

But it doesn't mean nothing should be done. Yes depression is hard to overcome but it shouldn't be neglected either because what would be the difference if you just let a depressed person be depressed all by herself. Isn't that more cruel and lonely?

In my opinion, the emperor has given her enough rest, motivation and patience. If he keeps tolerating her doings then what would be the point? Nothing would change. Let's be thankful enough that the emperor cares for the Fl instead of neglecting her or worse be cruel to her.

No one is saying that this means that nothing should be done. Instead, we should be empathetic and understanding to the struggle she goes through (and no this does not mean letting her lie down and die. )

The point is that saying that someone has everything won't fix that. Sure, she may have a "golden spoon" like the OP of this post mentioned but that isn't an automatic depression cure. Unless you experience it, it is hard to understand but it's nothing like just feeling unmotivated or sad. This is not just the OP having to do things she hates to do. The point of me asking the OP if they have ever heard of depression is that their answer seems like it's trying to be kind, however, it is very apparent that the OP of this post lacks knowledge about depression and about what it is like to be depressed. The things that Mai mentioned e.g. "golden spoon", she "has everything", "unmotivated" is quite patronizing. This is like saying that she has nothing to be depressed about and here is the thing, depression doesn't need a reason to be there. It can just be there, sure there might be a biological explanation behind it, however, you don't need to have some kind of life struggle to be depressed. Depression can hit you out of nowhere, lack a wall of bricks. It can ruin a person's life.

High functioning depression is also a thing, and sure, someone who is high functioning can get up and complete those tasks that need to be done, but guess what? They will still be depressed. The issue of depression isn't just simply someone lacking motivation. It's honestly very difficult to explain to someone who hasn't experienced it. I could describe it as endless despair, that is there, and it remains there, it doesn't just go away. You don't enjoy anything/you enjoy next to nothing. Your body feels tired, despite how much sleep you get. Getting out of bed is you forcing, dragging your body, fighting against the tiredness you feel, against the great sense of dread and sadness. If you're lucky enough to be high functioning, you can drag your body out of bed, you can and regardless of whatever you do, the sense of dread never gets away. It's heavy and you feel it deep inside you. You try to fight against it, but there are no quick fixes. Life is suffering, even the things you used to love feel like suffering, it's an endless nightmare and more likely than not, you're probably thinking of ending your life because at that moment (which typically lasts months of years), life feels like suffering and pain. You try to do stuff to make it better but depression isn't about reason or logic, it often remains there. Being well of financially won't fix it, because depression is not about poverty or your situation (although it can affect that a lot), depression is a condition that can affect anyone regardless of wealth. Psychology is still a developing field but we have medication and therapies that can help but the symptoms won't be fixed instantly/within a quick amount of time. Some people can get better after only 6 months of treatment, others have to continue the medications/therapies for a long amount of time/indefinitely. Sometimes you can get better without any proper treatment, and this will most likely be what happens to the MC of this story, but that is neither a quick or easy process. The MC is doing her best to corporate, what she is struggling with is a living nightmare but she is putting in the effort and I think that we should be proud of her for that, instead of acting like she just lacks motivation/is lazy.

Frankly, It's hard for me to even tell if I explained it well enough for you to understand. Before I started suffering from it I could have never imagined how bad it was going to be. And in the past, I would have agreed with quite a lot of things Mai said but now that I know what it's like, I can promise you that Mais interpretation of this is far from the truth and I'm certain that anyone and everyone who has struggled with it would love for it to be something as simple as "lacking motivation."


This thing that I wrote, it's long, it's well explained (at least I hope that it is) and it's a task that has been completed. And while I did do a thing, I still am in a state of existence where everything is suffering, life is miserable, and doing anything feels like dragging a lifeless doll around. I would love to just lie down and never do anything at all, I would prefer not to exist but now I got to get myself up, go to the store, buy some things, come back home and hope that I will be able to force myself to do other productive stuff but frankly I have no clue what I'm going to be able to do because it's only 5pm and the amount of energy my body has is almost non-existent. Me completing tasks doesn't fix it. Me having a house to live in and food doesn't fix it. I wish that it could be as easy as just choosing not to be depressed, that would actually benefit me a lot, but that isn't the case.


You said "In my opinion, the emperor has given her enough rest, motivation and patience. If he keeps tolerating her doings then what would be the point? Nothing would change" to neprune. And the thing about this is that, is that yes, this is what it's like. You can rest, you will still feel tired and lack energy. You can get up and do stuff, and you will still be struggling with the same stuff. Nothing changes.
Of course, the situation isn't completely hopeless (therapy+medication exist) but the emperor forcing the MC to do stuff will not magically instantly fix the OP's depression. Op is stuck in another world where they most likely do not have proper treatments. The chance is there but with no way to address the cause of the issue, if the MC was a real person, they would most likely just be a depressed person who manages to do stuff. There is hope, but the chance is slim, but the possibility is still there. Of course, this is a fictional story so things will fix themselves.

TLDR: depression = hard
no quick solution
not just lacking motivation
it can ruin your life
doing stuff won't fix it
high functioning depression is a thing
slim chance of getting better
life is suffering

I agreed that the emperor is trying to help, but like I said, everyone is different. However long it takes for the FL to become motivated is up to her, not the emperor. If the emperor did neglect her, the church would get more followers than the emperor. So he really doesn't have a choice lol but turns out he has feelings for her, so ofc he’d be willing to wait till she’s willing to learn/work.

That's a long ass reply. But I get what you mean because I'm clinically depressed so

Also the ML apologized in the latest update anyways so i guess he realized what he's doing? I hope so

The ppl here aren't hating on the ML, I think that we are all cool with the story and how it's going.

From what I read, I think that ppl are just annoyed at ppl who referred to the MC as lazy, etc.

Lol i think u see urself in fl. Ml "forcing her to do stuff" was right because it was GOOD for her. Shes gonna die if shes just gonna sleep all day. Gosh! Bruh logic her body would start failing if shed just laze all around. WE CAN DEFINITELY SEE THAT THE FL IS NOT HEALING BY HERSELF. If the emperor wouldnt force her to do things, she wouldnt even heal nor realize that there is more to herself than she knows. I read a comment here that the fl is going to realize the next chapters and she wouldnt be able to realize if the emperor just left her rotting in her room. Anyways this is not for the fl but for u, im going to be blunt cuz if no ones gonna say this to u then ud probably never realize it. Stop making your "depression" as an excuse to heal or change yourself.

Lol i think u see urself in fl. Ml "forcing her to do stuff" was right because it was GOOD for her. Shes gonna die if shes just gonna sleep all day. Gosh! Bruh logic her body would start failing if shed just laze all around. WE CAN DEFINITELY SEE THAT THE FL IS NOT HEALING BY HERSELF. If the emperor wouldnt force her to do things, she wouldnt even heal nor realize that there is more to herself than she knows. I read a comment here that the fl is going to realize the next chapters and she wouldnt be able to realize if the emperor just left her rotting in her room. Anyways this is not for the fl but for u, im going to be blunt cuz if no ones gonna say this to u then ud probably never realize it. Stop making your "depression" as an excuse to *not heal or change yourself.

Awkward, you're literally arguing a strawman. I already stated that I don't think that nothing should be done and that I don't think that we should just let her lie down and die. That was literally the first thing I said.

Evidence: "No one is saying that this means that nothing should be done. Instead, we should be empathetic and understanding to the struggle she goes through (and no this does not mean letting her lie down and die. )"

I can see 3 explanations behind why you didn't realize this:
1)You didn't read anything I said
2)You intentionally misrepresented my proposition
3)You read what I wrote but you didn't use your brain or you have horrible cognitive thinking skills.



Now that this part is out of the way, I shall respond to the advice you gave me.

Reasons why I/anyone else wouldn't take your advice:
-You have been very rude
-You shouted at me (e.g. WE CAN DEFINITELY SEE THAT THE FL IS NOT HEALING BY HERSELF)
-You lack knowledge on me and my lifestyle and my life. There is no way for you to give effective advice, that applies to a specific person if you do not know them
-No one here has asked for your advice.
-Your advice doesn't seem to be coming from a loving place, instead, it seems as though it's coming from a place of arrogance.
-It's patronizing.
-No paragraphs, horrible spelling (e.g. "then ud probably")

After reading what you wrote, most people would respond by calling you a "rude arrogant asshole" and while I won't do that, I do think that you presented yourself like that. Unlike you, I won't claim to know you or your life because I literally don't know you, and it would be foolish for me to do.

If you still believe yourself to be in a position where you can give me advice please:
-explain how I live my life
-tell me your qualifications and what great things you have achieved
-explain why you choose to be so rude towards me.
-explain how I am making excuses to change/heal myself.
-explain the specific lifestyle changes you believe that I should make.

Rude. Healing/Changing is easier said than done.

Its my fault here. I guess i replied the wrong comment. But since im already here then let us say i did reply your comment. First, i didnt yell at you. the letters were capitalized to emphasize the words i wanted to be highlighted. Second, i can give advice whether or not you asked for it. Third, I didn't claim to know who you are. If you really are offended then that must mean that my advice got you. Bruh I dont need to know who you are because you know your self well. Whether you claim yourself in this comment that i got you wrong, we wouldn't know. After all, we dont know anyone here. Sakali lang natamaan ka, youll realize what i said was right all along. Lastly, i thank you for your respond hehe