Intj here...that totally explains my frustration with the uke.
Me, I would have been:
Like...it's the past. Wth does it have to do with the now? Or us? It was a friggin" one sided crush you never acted one. Don't blame me for your inability to sh*t or get off the pot.
And then I would have walked and most likely ended the relationship, 'cause I ain't got time for emotionally wishy-washy people.
Same.
And I'll say, Yes, yes, yes, you entitled the feelings you have, go to the corner and cry for whatever it is you feel you need to cry about, and I'll go.
What makes me angry is that the protagonist feels entitled to his feelings no matter how illogical and nonsense his feelings are, but at the same time he wants to be understood about it, he belittles the feeling of Section Chef.
What a hard thing to say that he needed time to think and manage his feelings. Rather than avoiding and depicting someone who has absolutely nothing to do with it--other than being the lover of his first love, as the villain in his failed first love story.
Some people (I am one of those) who sympathize with jongchan more. It is how it is. I can't sympathize with the uke because I can't say I understand his situation and if I had been in the seme's position I would probably react the same way. And then try to analyse the situation and go for it again. This is a prime example of INTJ personality, people. So if u meet someone later who is like this just remember we are easy to dislike because our eq is basically a stone, we are workoholic and planner and unable to consider human emotions but at the end we are human too and probably we'll say it straight to the face than bitching behind ur back when we like u.