Is it true that there's no love if your partner doesn't get jealous ??

Kae_ February 5, 2021 1:05 pm

Is it true that there's no love if your partner doesn't get jealous ??

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    InsomniacEnigma February 5, 2021 1:33 pm

    That is only just one possibility. There r also some situations where your partner simply trusts u enough to not worry about it. It is also possible that your partner may just be good at hiding their jealousy. Or perhaps they just don't feel jealous since that's just who they r. There r other reasons y your partner may not feel any jealousy.

    But yea- since there r many factors to consider (bond, trust, personality, situation, other relationships, etc.), don't feel too anxious if your partner doesn't feel/show any jealousy; there r other ways of knowing if your partner loves u.

    Nacho mama February 5, 2021 2:28 pm

    No that’s not true at all. It’s actually a very childish way of looking at things (not that I’m calling you childish, but I’m saying a person doesn’t have to feel jealousy just because they like somebody.) If you like them, then you like them. Jealousy implies feelings that you own something, which is really starting to cross the line of possessiveness (which is unhealthy). That said, a person can feel jealous sometimes and be aware of it and try not to let it affect them. It’s not necessarily ideal to feel jealousy, but it isn’t inherently a bad sign either. Jealousy usually comes when you feel insecure about something, like you want to keep it and own it but you know that you can’t force it to stay yours, which results in fear and anger (jealousy). Sometimes people have feelings like this and do their best not to act out on those feelings. I think yaoi tries to romanticize possessiveness and jealousy as though they’re cute when in reality, if someone you liked was acting like that and getting mad at you for just living your life or trying to control what you do, it wouldn’t be cute at all.

    Nacho mama February 5, 2021 2:32 pm
    That is only just one possibility. There r also some situations where your partner simply trusts u enough to not worry about it. It is also possible that your partner may just be good at hiding their jealousy. ... InsomniacEnigma

    I agree with this but also jealousy doesn’t mean love either. Jealousy just means anger over something you own being wanted/taken by something else. You can be jealous without love, so it isn’t an accurate indicator. I just mean a person can love and feel jealous, but they can also feel jealous but not love. People often associate love and jealousy together but in reality they’re completely independent of each other. You can have one without the other, even if sometimes you have both. Sorry if that didn’t make sense.

    InsomniacEnigma February 5, 2021 2:41 pm
    I agree with this but also jealousy doesn’t mean love either. Jealousy just means anger over something you own being wanted/taken by something else. You can be jealous without love, so it isn’t an accurate ... Nacho mama

    Ah, that's true, jealousy is an independent factor that can associate with other situations as well. Thank u for pointing this out ^^

    Kae_ February 6, 2021 11:45 am

    Thank you for that answer highly appreciate somehow it comforts me