all the kids in the comments don’t understand what marriage is about nor arranged marria...

dessy February 5, 2021 3:47 pm

all the kids in the comments don’t understand what marriage is about nor arranged marriage back then. In relationships especially one like theirs there won’t be an amazing amount of communication like y’all being hella not understanding. This story is so real that you guys don’t even understand the simple fact that relationships will have parts and areas of terrible non communication and poor communication.

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    aruvin February 6, 2021 3:35 am

    totally agree! but yk we’re tryna read it for the romance tag but instead we get miscommunication and toxicity that doesn’t help the plot develop... but tbh i don’t really care about that since seeing their dynamic is interesting and as you said, it’s pretty realistic

    dessy February 6, 2021 1:37 pm
    totally agree! but yk we’re tryna read it for the romance tag but instead we get miscommunication and toxicity that doesn’t help the plot develop... but tbh i don’t really care about that since seeing the... aruvin

    romance doesn’t just come easily tbh it’s gonna have toxicity it’s rare to have a non toxic points in a relationship. The realism of this story what makes me love it a lot.

    Moylyn February 6, 2021 1:46 pm

    Arranged what? he was forced into this crap! She knows he struggles with trust self esteem and confidence and all she does is make it worse... teasing him with a little love and them do dumb shit and when he reacts she act like she's innocent! Again, SHE IS HORRIBLE!!!!!!!! (╬ ̄皿 ̄). She's not trying to understand him at all! How is he to communicate with her when she's always seem to be manipulating him... Poor or non communication does not account for blatant manipulation and scheming! He's a wounded man deeply and emotionally, he's trying to quit his bad habits and all she's doing is making him feel worse then pretend like an innocent "white deer" How is their marriage ever going to get better when she's cant even realize that she is hurting him more with her crap! I DO NOT LIKE HER! AGHHHHHHHH. And I especially dislike double standards regarding toxic women! It like a woman can't possibly be toxic and wicked. only a man can.. and if by chance its so glaring how toxic a woman is, its blamed on the circumstances instead of the PLAIN AS DAY TRASH OF A WOMAN!!!!

    p.s. I am a woman! ?I just despise unfairness!

    Still, I respect all opinions!

    aruvin February 6, 2021 9:48 pm
    Arranged what? he was forced into this crap! She knows he struggles with trust self esteem and confidence and all she does is make it worse... teasing him with a little love and them do dumb shit and when he re... Moylyn

    NO I AGREE i don’t know if i came off like i was saying that it was one sided toxicity BUT this wouldn’t have happened if the fl didn’t rope ml into this!!! plus i get how frustrating she is.. like she’s being so contradictory with her actions and words. This is also the ml’s fault too bc despite how he’s being treated, he isn’t treating anyone else any better BUT it’s understandable. He was living his life however he wanted and some random ass women forced him into marriage and expected him to change himself for her right off the bat. basically what fl did was selfish asf and she deserves the shit she gets lol

    dessy February 7, 2021 12:01 am
    Arranged what? he was forced into this crap! She knows he struggles with trust self esteem and confidence and all she does is make it worse... teasing him with a little love and them do dumb shit and when he re... Moylyn

    1. Idc if you’re a woman.
    2. Arranged is arranged. Forced marriages are aka arranged marriages.
    3. Like i said a real relationship will have toxicity and it will be way worse with arranged marriages
    4. In the times like those there were many marriages like those. It was either the man schemed and planned the arranged marriage or it was the woman.
    5. It is sort of unfair but still they both have their faults in this matter. He don’t trust her and she is don’t trust him.
    6. You can’t hate one person in this situation especially when both are at fault. Be more understanding that’s why i said this story is more real than any i have read. Arranged marriages can be very much like this. Since you more than likely don’t really know the whole aspects of arranged marriages then you probably wouldn’t know.
    7. Hatred is a strong feeling for a inanimate character ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    Moylyn February 7, 2021 12:02 pm
    NO I AGREE i don’t know if i came off like i was saying that it was one sided toxicity BUT this wouldn’t have happened if the fl didn’t rope ml into this!!! plus i get how frustrating she is.. like she’... aruvin

    yes yes!!! exactly! Sorry that I misunderstood!