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I heard that she is the actual cinderella. And our mo's father was fairy that helped her. Basically she is thinking "everyone should do everything honorable way, don't think of marrying bad people because someone (fairy in her case ) will save you. She doesn't understand everyone is not lucky like her. She forgot that she is exception to have fairy and provence to get out of her situation

The dowager said she had to go through a lot of pain and suffering, but it seems like her wealth and status has been handed to her easily. She doesn't get the view point of a woman in a lower position than her.