I can't even hate the ex because he isn't scummy enough, he might even be a bit decent cuz...

I can't even hate the ex because he isn't scummy enough, he might even be a bit decent cuz he is owning up to his responsibility and mistakes but damn...

Also I read a reddit post with a story like this before, like the poster is the wife with kids, and after building a family with the guy, all of a sudden the previous woman childohood sweetheart who disappeared (because she was kidnapped when young and just recently rescued) is clinging on to the husband, at first the wife let them meet because she understands the woman was traumatized and needed some help, but then after some time the husband now wants to divorce her