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quinnggu February 9, 2021 3:06 pm

Uh, if they slept together that night, didn’t he basically rape her? She was drunk and could not consent, I mean she couldn’t even remember what happened and she passed out. If he really did sleep with her then he sexually assaulted her. I’m hoping they didn’t and it’s one of those she threw up so he took off his clothes but it looks like they did sleep together. I get that it’s supposed to be light hearted but it’s going to be weighing down on my mind as I read this:|

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    Titania February 9, 2021 3:16 pm

    I get your train of thoughts. It still could be that she was awake and drunk and knnitiated it or something and just not remembers because she had too much. It doesn not necessarily mean that he raped her while she was unconscious.

    EvaGreen February 9, 2021 3:23 pm
    I get your train of thoughts. It still could be that she was awake and drunk and knnitiated it or something and just not remembers because she had too much. It doesn not necessarily mean that he raped her while... Titania

    Yup you are right.
    Some poeple when they get drunk they wiouldn't remember what they did however they in the state of consious. But some people when they really get drunk they just unconcious and slept like log.

    quinnggu February 9, 2021 3:32 pm
    I get your train of thoughts. It still could be that she was awake and drunk and knnitiated it or something and just not remembers because she had too much. It doesn not necessarily mean that he raped her while... Titania

    But even if she wasn’t unconscious, it’s still rape yknow? Since she couldn’t consent in a conscious state of mind due to being intoxicated. Idk, I’m just hoping it wasn’t bc it’ll make me feel kinda iffy but oh well

    EvaGreen February 9, 2021 4:53 pm
    But even if she wasn’t unconscious, it’s still rape yknow? Since she couldn’t consent in a conscious state of mind due to being intoxicated. Idk, I’m just hoping it wasn’t bc it’ll make me feel kind... quinnggu

    But then how about you tried imagine or ask some people who in your connection that have some habit like that.

    I have friend when she is drunk she can seduce other guy and kiss them. But when she back to her normal, in the morning she didn't remember that she has seduce the brother of her friend??

    In this argument, you have some point, and i have some point from another view.

    This argument is just like when we look some one who is the Handsome between CR7 or Messi?? Some people will says Messi is handsome for them, and some will says that CR7 is the handsome one. Then someone will said Beckam is more handsome than both of them.

    And i want to apologize to you if i can't agree with you, but you have the right to think like that, and i knew...
    Hope you have a big heart to tried from different pont of view.

    And sorry for the example that far from the topic.

    Hope you become some one who will growth to the Wise person.
    (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    quinnggu February 9, 2021 6:59 pm
    But then how about you tried imagine or ask some people who in your connection that have some habit like that. I have friend when she is drunk she can seduce other guy and kiss them. But when she back to her no... EvaGreen

    Dude, I’m not talking about someone kissing someone while drunk or who is more handsome. I’m talking about a person who is in a conscious state of mind that slept with someone who is intoxicated and can’t even think straight. That is rape, it is sexual assault, and that can’t be proven otherwise. By saying the person might’ve initiated it and they wanted it is basically blaming the victim who got assaulted, when it’s not their fault since they aren’t conscious. Maybe my words confused you or something because you’re not really understanding what I’m explaining here.

    EvaGreen February 9, 2021 11:09 pm
    Dude, I’m not talking about someone kissing someone while drunk or who is more handsome. I’m talking about a person who is in a conscious state of mind that slept with someone who is intoxicated and can’t... quinnggu

    I'm understood what you are said.
    Really!.
    What you said is also right, but i can't said if that rape. What if, when he tried to help her but she seduce and hug then kiss him when he put her in the bed??
    Some men will got seduced, some men will rejected, some men don't know what to do??

    And if she said "you raped me!, when i'm unconsious!." then the man said "you seduce me?!."

    And in this manhwa, the author and the artis bring the story from the stand point of a mature woman, who know that from the moment you get drunk, you can do whatever that might not right or the like?? And she didn't rejected that she also wrong.

    EvaGreen February 9, 2021 11:17 pm
    Dude, I’m not talking about someone kissing someone while drunk or who is more handsome. I’m talking about a person who is in a conscious state of mind that slept with someone who is intoxicated and can’t... quinnggu

    I know you can't accepted what i'm said, and maybe I'm wrong and you are right.
    So i'm sorry for not really agree with what said in this manhwa.

    quinnggu February 9, 2021 11:28 pm
    I know you can't accepted what i'm said, and maybe I'm wrong and you are right. So i'm sorry for not really agree with what said in this manhwa. EvaGreen

    A good person will push away the person who is drunk and can’t make reasonable choices, and not sleep with them. They won’t get seduced if they have a conscious and know right from wrong, plus the person is INTOXICATED so in this case, she can’t reject someone who is stronger than her and who decides to sleep with her while she’s not even in a conscious state of mind. Someone who gets drunk doesn’t think “I might get raped or who knows what if I get drunk, but that’s ok with me”. Someone being drunk doesn’t give you the right to sexually assault them if they try to sleep with you, the person as a human with basic common sense will think, “This person is drunk, they probably don’t want someone who they’ve never met to sleep with them, I will make sure they’re fine and leave them alone”. I’ll no longer argue since you just keep victim blaming, and yes I don’t agree with you. You can believe what you want though, have a nice day dear.

    Lonewolf February 27, 2021 8:57 pm
    A good person will push away the person who is drunk and can’t make reasonable choices, and not sleep with them. They won’t get seduced if they have a conscious and know right from wrong, plus the person is... quinnggu

    You are absolutely correct. These people need to check the definition of rape anyways. Well I will say that the author didn't think like that though...it is shown as just a drunken mistake...depends on the cultural and social background I guess.