thats what I thought
true, but to some other ppl sex isn't just sex, its something you do thats really intimate with a lover so I respect their opinions and thoughts on it. although I CAN say I have had sex with someone that I dont care for or love, I have never done it when I DO like someone or am interested in someone, other ppl aren't attractive to me anymore. so imo it was surprising to see doc claim he's in love or likes the uke a lot but easily has sex with someone else, but ofc everyone does things/thinks differently it just seemed that doc's feelings toward uke seem insincere or superficial, NOW thats why I think ppl were put off from the doc also idk why he had to have sex right before the day he was going to meet the uke, like he is already pursuing him and meeting him so I felt it was unnecessary you know? like if my crush broke my heart ok yea ill get under someone to get over them but its not like the uke did anything, you get me? sorry for this long ass comment LOL
No, its totally fine to have sex with other people while youre not in a relationship and have only just started pursuing them, but I think its just more *in-your-face* being behind the scenes and seeing him have sex with people and then go to hit on MC. Its like not a bad thing, but obviously youd be a bit uncomfortable? Bc ofc in real life, you wouldnt make thw person youre pursuing aware of your current sex life and they just wouldnt know anyway Ex: I had a guy from work gushing and gushing to me nonstop about this girl he was in love with, was trying to win over. I was like, 'awww this is cute. I support you'. Few days later I notice him and this girl in the corner making out. For a sec, I was thinking "*gasp* you're betraying your love" or what-the-fuck-ever my 'romantic' brain was doing, but I remembered they werent *together* yet. My point is: its different being behind the scenes. Whether you choose to have sex while being in love or not is really just personal preference.
Personally, I wouldn't have any qualms about having sex in other people while crushing on or in love with someone else, but I wouldn't once the flirting begins if that makes sense. I.e. once youve made your intentions known to the other person by actively hitting on them, casual sex is fine but can send a bad message if that person knows of it (obv they probably wont). Theyd feel like you weren't 'sincere' enough to at least pause the sex shenanigans while you're talking/pursuing/testing the waters. Of course, if theyre not very responsive to it, sex with other is even more reasonable while you sort of wait for an opportunity or not
Could not have said it any better
Yall people can't tell me you haven't had sex with other people even though you like someone. Like just because you like someone doesn't mean you can't do the Frick frack with someone else. That only changes when you start to pursue the other person or you guys start dating seriously.