
I forget which one but there was an isekai manga that addressed this “not like other girls” where the fl basically shut that down saying the noble girls couldn’t express their other sides to people since it would seem weird and uncultured that the men never tried to see those sides. It was much better stated but ever since I’ve read that I always think about it especially in these forced “she’s different” plot lines.

I agree.
I was pissed the moment she was pissed that her ex fiance got married. So really early on lol. Like dude you were engaged for 2 years and treated him more like a friend and like it was a chore. He was looking for love ( still picked a trash of a girl but that's beside the point). Why be mad he looked elsewhere? Especially when she seemed to not care at first.
It was annoying to see her mope cause the guy that said he loved her left her, yet she said to his face she didn't love him.
Now that whole fight seemed dumb as well. I would defend that old lady's too but why did she go to the party when she knew it was a trap? Also she is Bellow that girls status so it seems really dumb to start the fight at all. Like point out how she is rude so that the crowd knows should she truly is but don't slap some more powerful ( socially and politicaly) than you. I feel like everything she does annoys me.
This FL is already pissing me off lol she was going to apologize???? doesnt stand up for herself and the author is trying to paint her as the typical "not like other girls" FL.. i can already predict ima get more mad lol like where is the backstory.. she was rude to the emperor one time and he falls for her..