well i guess they feel happy (?) that they’re fl’s first and no one else’s? maybe it’s the possessiveness....
tho i agree nothing wrong with not being one
because unvirgin women holds the role of filthy and impure villainness in stories like these. in other words they just hate women lmao
well tbh i think this idea originated from religions like christianity (nuns) i guess, not trying to offend anyone, but it rlly makes me question a lot of the things “god” claim he does
i understand and i concur. have you ever watched that netflix movie marriage story? in that movie laura derns character had a monologue about how christianity is the basis of patriarchy and contributes to misogyny with having the virgin mary being the epitome of holy woman. shes a virgin and she gave birth to a son, and the father is an entity that has never around. i resonate your sentiment, but well i think it goes beyond judaismic believe too though because misogyny knows no religious, sovereignty, ethnicity, culture, and time boundary
why are ppl so obsessed with making FLs virgins, seriously they're so adamant on it and MLs always say it like its such a huge turn on or its great, like literally there is nothing wrong with not being a virgin