and it wasnt all rapey!!!!! i loved this so much ><
YES that's important to note considering we're talking about a Yaoi, sad but true.
CONSENT is best
yes!! consent is the best. i used to toy with the idea of a dominating lover who does what they want, regardless of the other, a lover who is all pushy and demanding. then I got a boyfriend like that and realized that it's not romantic. it's uncomfortable and disgusting and awful. it makes you feel gross and sad.
I'm sorry you had to have that awful experience, I hope you are doing much better now! There's always toxic people around which is quite sad...
Yeah the idea of such a concept is only appealing if it stays fiction, I have no issue with drama in Yaoi but it's just blatantly wrong to glamorize rape or overly obsessive Seme.
It goes to the point where I'm thankful for a normal and nice Seme, just because they're giving consent, doesn't mean they can't be hot or rough during sex...which most people seem to forget.
That's honestly part of the reason why I don't like Killing Stalking/Painter of the night much but Zankoku na kami ga shihai suru (the theme is extremely dark too but there's respect for the topic).
aww thank you <3 dw, i broke up with him a while ago. he had the audacity to say "but it was so good" referring to when he constantly emotionally manipulated me. /:
also happy valentines day!!! <3 thank you for making a stranger on the internet feel a little better <3
Thank god! I hope you find someone who treats you with the love and respect you deserve and never have to meet anyone as toxic as him again!!
The people who abuse others don't even realize the harm they cause most of the time, they're stuck in their own reality where everything they do is essentially for the "best" (their best only)...it's really sad...
Happy Valentine's day to you too!! I'm so glad that I could make you feel better, hope you had a great day nonetheless (I'm reading this a day late tho lol).
I always treat myself to a cake on that day (I'm Single so I'm enjoying it by myself,one of the perks :3)
<3 I did make a cake today!!!! it was box mix, but after some extra butter, egg, and vanilla extract, it was pretty dang good hehe c:
I''m really glad I left him. I do wish I could have avoided him... but oh well! I hope you will find someone who treats you with all the love and respect, too!!!! <3 and stay warm (if it's cold outside)!!! stay safe then, ig~ <3
A different level of possessiveness.............