Yeah exactly. I would even say that these feelings are the main premise of this story and how it affects his relationships. Like chun Sam said in the end it came down to love himself and the trust. All of this obviously stemmed from his father blaming him for his mothers death and being continuously abused, abandoned and exploited. Wouldn't it be more unnatural if min gyeom wasn't like that in the end? He is still a bright person but he is insecure due to is trauma that is not his fault. Idk how they can call him "annoying"... no his situation made it frustrating for him too.
Yeah exactly. Almost e everybody goes through these feeling and seeing them portrayed pretty decently is really refreshing. I would say their relationship is actually pretty healthy. altho there is a lot of communication issues, in the end they always talk to eachother about it and work it our instead of actually creating a toxic environment. They really love eachother.
its so baffling reading the comments. people are calling the main character annoying when they are really realistic. i wonder if its because these people arent insecure and suffer from mental health/confidence issues. the main character is really insecure and always taking things negatively about himself and always 2nd guesses himself. seeing a character go through these emotions is so realistic but people are calling it annoying. even calling it toxic.
its really harmful to people and a really unrealistic expectation for relationships and for someone to be 100% all of the time and not feel insecure. [and the main character was abused. like .... yeah they suffer consequences of it ... like actual irl ppl]
relationships have issues, people are insecure. relationships have communication issues.
the people i see commenting this have a lot to learn in general about relationships and people's emotional issues.
quite a ramble but the fact that some people sit here and bash actual problems people have when they are uncontrollable issues that actual individuals have just bothered me. to even call it toxic is just ... omg
these are literally nrmal things and affect more than half the people in the world o-0