the mother has baby blues and the father is so fucking gullible

im not going to put the blame on the mother, i saw firsthand how baby blues affect mothers and their child and their relationship going forward. the father is innately uncomunicative and he brought his own paranoia and made her wife's unstable mental condition worsened. this is horrible but sadly a very common dynamic in marriages, since people often get married without the mental capacity to deal with themselves, their s/o, and the possibility of bringing a child into the marriage