BDSM literally relies on explicit consent. You don’t engage in play spontaneously, both partners have to agree to the conditions beforehand and even in the middle of things the sub has the right to relinquish consent and the dom has to immediately stop. You always make sure your partner agrees with the action before proceeding, otherwise it’s just assault. Just because BDSM is rough doesn’t mean there aren’t rules and consent isn’t respected, that’s an invention of Hollywood and fiction
yes this kind of bdsm relationship is the healthiest! (and i do think the 1st cp also consented the play between them both) it just this 2nd cp dont show it much and that's a weakness in this manhwa as they don't include much of the bdsm play rules.
I'm just stating that this 2nd cp also into bdsm, but not really saying it was nicely delivered? like, i understood the author kinda want to deliver the mssge that andy is a maso who won't admit it until martin come and do this sort of things to him, but i kinda wish the author didn't make martin do that just to show it. they could choose different route to express andy's tsundereness in accepting his masochism but oh well.. and as for martin, i really hope he would change himself lol bro just went and do that to andy who's still new to this sike- probably why most of his relationship aint lasting sksksk
well, we are reading some bdsm here so im not surprised to see the 2nd cp also into bdsm welp- it might be uncomfortable for some people (i do too) but i think all of it as bdsm play, and andy was just too tsundere to admit his masochism thus martin here gonna wake his m-side with his sadisticness.
i just hope they would have some safe word between them.