Well I don’t want to risk spoilers but I won’t say anything that is a real spoiler but I’ll put it behind a fake spoiler warning anyways.
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Jaeyoung definitely changes/compromises MORE for Sangwoo than vice versa. and their whole development is both learning to understand each other’s wildly different ways they navigate life, without pressuring each other to compromise on their values. Yeah, Jaeyoung is kinda a douchebag, but he’s also just ignorant about people who operate differently than he does, as are a lot of people IRL, and he ends up working on his bad parts because sangwoo calls him out on them constantly. It’s not like Sangwoo later just ignores his shittiness because he’s in love lol. They are both shocked by someone who is so different from them, and the initial reaction from both is to reject it. The whole story is constantly trying to reflect on themselves and learn from each other. It’s good and a lot more realistic than many many other series, BL or not.
Like I’m trying my best to read this but I really detest annoying people like Jaeyoung. And I’m convinced that the people defending Jaeyoung are all dumb -_- You all are like “Sangwoo is dramatic” “He’s overreacting” or jokingly saying “Okaaay note to self, don’t take anyways hat” Sangwoo had every right to react that way. Jaeyoung has bothered and infiltrated his personal bubble plenty of times and each time Sangwoo has told him to stop but he didn’t. He’s OVERSTEPPING & it’s annoying me so much. If you've experience a similar situation then I'm pretty sure you understand. That was Sangwoo’s reaction, others are violent, some people cry but for me I start hyperventilating/ or have panic attacks. I feel suffocated when people come into my personal space or touch me without my permission. Even though I'm annoyed with the story. I want to know Sangwoo’s story soo I will be sucking it up and continue to read. Regardless of the fact that Jaeyoung makes me nauseous and gives me war flashbacks ### Ugh why he gotta be so fine but so damn annoying too#### (⌒▽⌒) Anywayssss remember folks, respect people’s boundaries.