How can taeyul ever trust the uke ever again... goes from desperately begging for trust to...

Hold up.

I can't believe my eyes reading your comment.

Are you saying Taeyul is a victim?!

Did we read the same manga? Because as far as I know, the uke was blackmailed that's why he left the seme. How was it his fault? You might just be reading what you wanted to see and nothing else

lol what

Uhh...? what? they all had traumas, they all had misdoings, so how did everyone elses (excluding Taeyul’s) got filtered? LMAO

I'm the one asking if we read the same manga... you guys realize he has no responsibility to sacrifice his life and terribly hurt the people he loves and who desperately loves him all for someone who cruelly abandoned him to chase his own agenda, right? Even if the first seme did consider for a second running away with the uke he never really considered it... he was planning to ask the uke to wait when his wife threatened him and said "all or nothing". and he promptly broke up with the uke without telling him a damn thing...

But the uke heard about what was happening and promptly betrays the man who supported him through his heart break and who he was supposed deeply in love with. He was literally the one chasing the second seme and he ended up making the seme gay for him. They both have relationship issues and we watched them learned and grew together and they don't see how what the uke does is terrible?

They talk about how they both want an absolute love and they basically promise their unending, enduring love for eachother and the uke gets over his belief that everyone will leave him eventually. But literally the moment there is anything to do with the second seme the uke is interested or doesn't act normal so the semes trauma is triggered. So yeah he gets really possessive and it worries the uke a bit, but they have a good talk about how the uke will never leave him and how the seme needs to believe in and trust him, the uke literally begs. And the seme agrees and makes an effort to relax and show his trust.


But Wait you know what? On his first trip out he literally GOES OFF TO SEE THE SECOND SEME?! Like if that bitch pulled her car up and asked to talk and i knew that was exactly what the man I loved and was trying not to hurt or betray was worried about, I WOULD NOT GET IN... would you?? No wonder the seme didn't trust him, he can only think about the first seme. It's just that what the uke does totally reveals that he still has feelings for the first seme. He did whatever it took just to help him, not even be with him but just help him indirectly... and he was fine doing that at the expense of the man that he apparently loved more than the first seme... he could have bargained and been like "if I can convince taeyul to leave with me without yelling him about this is that fine?" But no he doesn't even try to find a way to stay with or not hurt the seme he just marches back home and breaks up with him. AND HE USES THE SEMES GREATEST FEAR TO DO IT!

Their love can never be the same because the uke did that to the seme without a single regard for his feelings. They were supposed to have an absolute love but the uke ruined it and broke it and revealed that he always loved the first seme too. And then he only reflects on how maybe he should have found a way to not hurt the seme so much months later. I needed to see the uke apologize and prove his love cause the second seme once again being the one chasing him didn't resolve the issue for me.

I genuinely don't understand how you can't be annoyed with the uke... its not like I hate him like I get it, I'd he hadn't done it the guy would probs die but that doesn't excuse the fallout of his decision. He chose the let that guy live rather than not betray the second seme. He effectively chose the first seme over the second which was the second semes greatest fear. Regardless of how necessary the decision was, he can undo the fact that now he has betrayed the second seme and that can't be undone... which is why I'm wondering how the seme could ever trust him again. He thought he could the first time and see how that turned out?

The ukes trauma was that no one would really love him for his whole life. WHICH WAS RESOLVED BY THE SECOND SEME...so in what world would that justify him betraying that person who will love him for someone who left him cruelly?? And even if you're gonna defend the idea that he was fine leaving the second seme cause he figured he'd be happier without him (which was part of his trauma) then that just means there's horrible writing cause who would totally undo all their character development right at the end of the story... and then never resolve it... either the uke did something shitty or the writing in the last 15 chapters gets bad... not like I'm saying the uke is the worst person ever but surely you can't say that what he did was smart or that it wasn't horrible to do that to the second seme...

I just needed to see the uke really regretting what he did and being torn up about it but we barely if at all get to see it... it was just way too easy for the uke to get everything he wanted even after doing that to the seme

Oh my god. After reading your comment I am litteraly not beliving it. You and I have very VERY different perspective on reality.

The uke, who's name is Soo Han (by the way), litteraly sacrifices his own happiness for a few chapter, his own freedom and liberty, JUST so that Taeyul feels less concerns.

He DOES NOT go out. DOES NOTHING. So that the Seme, little insecure baby that he is does not feel threaten. If that isn't a sign of self sacrifice? What is? Taeyul acted entilted. Being hurt. Being hurt in a past relationship excuse NOTHING of what Taeyul made Soo Han go through. Then... When finally Soo Han can go out. He realise that the man that PAID his way through education, loved him for half his life and sacrificed himself for him will Die if he does nothing. And in that situation, your argument his that he should have let a man die to protect Taeyul ridiculously petty feelings?

Sure. They have issue to discuss, and there were definitely things Soo Han could have gone better. But, none of what he did was selfish. He Always picked the man he loved first (Taeyul very much so). So, yes, Taeyul did save him from a bad break up, but Soo Han paid back this debt long time ago.

So is locking up the person you so call love justified by the fact that he loved him so dearly, and insecure about his previous relationship? What is wrong is wrong. The thing is Taeyul’s realized his wrongdoings from his previous ex-fiance and the audacity to repeat the same thing to the person he so dearly loved? it seemed more like extreme possessiveness and obsession to me. (Though that was resolved in following chapters)

I have to agree the last chapters were kinda rushed, but why blame the uke? In his situation, seeing the person who even gave him the chance to start-off anew and follow your passion, provided his daily necessities and the sole reason why he was where he is now, and also the person that introduced him to the person he now loved (which is Taeyul). Just rot in a mental hospital, knowing that it was the same place the murder of his mother happened? It may be irrational and dumb, but in the worse case scenario if he didn’t do what he did in the last few chapter the second male lead might truly have died, and another trauma would develop for the uke.

Guilt or self-blame might develop, knowing that he was given the chance and option to get Mr. Yoon out of there, knowing the uke even if it wasn’t really his fault a new cycle of psychological issues would have arisen.

Nevertheless, all is well, i don’t even know why I’m writing this when the person that deserved some sort of retribution was the Fiance, seriously if she hadn’t threatened the second male lead, he was ready to leave and give up everything to runaway with the uke.

And also, dafuq? If she wanted to seriously get the man out of there she could’ve done it without threatening the uke to even break up with the man he was currently together with, utmost it would’ve sufficed that staying away from Mr. Yoon would have done the job.

But no, she was insecure at herself in a relationship she knew full well was doomed from their first meeting. Why did she have to blame the third-party (the uke)? (In this case tho she seemed more like the third-person...) That’s what I don’t get in this kind of relationship they don’t blame their partner, and the audacity to even get angry for Mr. Yoon? dafuq was that? “It infuriates me that you’re out there enjoying the money from his pocket, while he’s fighting against deaths door” ????

If he had that problem in the first place, he would’ve shut down the whole company. And I know she knew that too

You're right I'm misdirection blame at the uke when I'm really blaming the author... the ukes decision was warranted because he was directly faced with the death of someone who was important to him in the past. (Although he knew the seme would've run away with him so I am super mad that he literally put no effort in trying to stay with the second seme) the issue I have is is that what happened has serious implications on the reality of the relationship between the uke and second seme (and I refer to them like this so those who do not remember the names know who I'm talking about). As hard as the decision may have been, the uke did chose the first seme over his relationship with the second seme and this only confirmed taeyuls greatest worries and don't think the author properly resolved that at all.

The uke got a resolution arc where he got over his trauma and could confirm the semes life-long love for him, but the seme never got that. In fact, in stead of a resolution arc, he trauma got repeated by the uke in the worst possible way. But then there is no arc where we get to see the resolution between them. The uke left the second seme for the first seme, even if it was because of a valid reason it doesn't negate the impact that decision had on the second seme and it upsets me that taeyul can only feel safe in their relationship because he knows the first seme is out of the picture and not because he knows the uke would always chose him no matter what. I guess I also wanted them to have an absolute love and that isn't really how it turned out.

The seme would have done what ever it took to stay with the uke and save the first seme which is the only reason I'm mad at the uke. He very easily gave up the second seme without fighting for him at all